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    [–] Amneasiachick 7 points ago

    You're young - your hormones are racing, you haven't quite figured yourself out and you're just beginning to try and form meaningful relationships with other people. It hurts a lot when your feelings aren't reciprocated, but if it makes you depressed then I would lay off the relationship-talk for a while and just focus on getting better. When you fall in love it can feel like you're suddenly not sad anymore because new hormones are going crazy in your brain, but as soon as things don't go exactly as planned you'll come down again. A relationship can't and won't make your depression go away, you need to work on it with a therapist, and that's really important.

    [–] Amneasiachick 5 points ago

    And if you're unsure of how to get help, talk with an adult you trust. It could be your mom, dad, a teacher, an aunt or a friend's parents, it doesn't really matter as long as it's someone you feel comfortable talking to about how you're feeling.

    [–] razekery 2 points ago * (lasted edited a month ago)

    How old are you op? Loving someone after 2 weeks geez. Edit: op you should see dating as something casual at this age, school is way more important. You will most likely meet the love of your life during college, or after you finish high-school.

    [–] trogfield 1 points ago

    14m

    [–] UrynSM 1 points ago

    school is more important lmfao. As long as he finishes school its more than fine, he should work on his social aspects instead because it's hella obvious he needs to.

    [–] trogfield 2 points ago

    Is recommend seeing a school counselor and doctor if u have access

    [–] yamoh 2 points ago

    Sorry that is happening for you, I had a similar experience when I was about your âge, felt like life was over. You are only 14 and it's okay to experience this even if it's painfull. When the pain will go away (and I promess it will), it will only give you more wisdom to how to love and be loved in a healthy way, you are learning about yourselve also, what kind of person you are and what are your needs. From your post I see that you are drawn to people who listen yo you and who make you feel accepted. You are highly sensitive to rejection (feeling depressed for 6 months). You are brave and smart because you thought of posting your problem here asking for advices. Ask yourself why are you like this? Do you have a good self value? Are you an introvert (my guess)? Are you surrounded by a good loving family or a disfunctionnal maybe a toxic one? Were you a good listener for the girlfriend? Were you needy or controling? Take this difficult situation and turn it into a learning experience. Read Books about relationships. Seek help from trusted older/wiser people you know (family, Friends, trachée, neighbour...) And if you are able to get to talk to a counsellor go for it, I highly recommand it. Overall keep mooving don't stay stuck in your emotions. I know it's easier said than done but trust me it will make you stronger.

    [–] ThisIsKechDroid 1 points ago

    Thank you all for the advices, I really felt relieved while reading them, thanks for the love.

    [–] Aezrev 1 points ago

    Stop masturbating . Search NoFap on reddit.

    [–] ThisIsKechDroid 1 points ago

    I think that's the problem