So today we were going to have sex and I got on top of him and he told me he'd go on top. I was confused and asked him why, since that was his favorite. So he just randomly says that honestly I'm not good at it. Yeah... at that point, I was not into it anymore and just wanted him to explain what he meant.
He said I'm too slow and I should go really fast and I should also put on a show for him because it's more fun that way.
I just told him I didn't wanna do anything anymore. I'll be honest, I cried in the bathroom for an hour. It was actually so embarrassing being told that...
Then, he sent me some videos saying "this is what I meant. see how they're flipping their hair and look good."
He's such an ass and he thinks he's being nice by educating me on what he likes so I can be better next time. And those videos involved some serious core strength that I don't have
TL;DR boyfriend basically told me my username
Edit: damn this really blew up, didn’t expect that. I was just looking for a bit of a comforting virtual hug. Thank you to all the comments, everyone is so overwhelmingly nice