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    [–] Should I even bother or accept forever alone? 9320-Man 1 points ago in socialskills

    Well...I’m not hideous but I’m not yet a looker.

    I’m working on my weight and I feel like I’ll be pretty good to a girl’s eye once I shed the pounds.

    It’s just her always smiling at me in the halls and bus. Her offering her umbrella in the rain. All this before I broke the ice. I really thought I could get this beautiful and passionate girl.

    She was the first girl who I thought was a 10 to show any interest towards me. Then I realized she’s one in a million.

    I dunno. I’ll lose the weight and see how much my confidence goes up. Maybe that’s what’ll make me lose the FA mentality.

    [–] How should I go about inviting a girl that’s unsure of my intentions to some summer food/music fests in our area? 9320-Man 1 points ago in askwomenadvice

    Well if it’s the first girl ever that’s out of my league to actually want to sit next to me on a bus and talk about my life it’s hard letting go.

    Especially since my chances of ever getting into another relationship are slim.

    [–] How should I go about inviting a girl that’s unsure of my intentions to some summer food/music fests in our area? 9320-Man 1 points ago in askwomenadvice

    I do and itll be great if anything happens. Giving her the chocolates was more “I really like you and I think you deserve these” along with me testing my courage. I’m not interested in hook ups in any circumstance so I’m not trying to get in her pants.

    At this point I’m just kind of lonely and would want someone like her to be my friend. She’s unique. I can learn a lot from her.

    [–] How should I go about inviting a girl that’s unsure of my intentions to some summer food/music fests in our area? 9320-Man 1 points ago in askwomenadvice

    Well curiosity.

    I think she really saw something in me that she liked but just one gesture on v day and then asking for her FB made me seem like I’m looking for romantic things.

    I know for a fact that she barely had time for anything now. Two jobs plus school.

    Her mentioning “I’ll be more free in a couple of months” means she might have less of something to worry about. Sunday is her only day free.

    I didn’t mention this in the post accidentally but my main question was “should I invite her to some food/music/culture fests in our area?” She mentioned when we first met that she doesn’t have many friends here and I’d like to be someone she wants to do things with.

    [–] How should I go about inviting a girl that’s unsure of my intentions to some summer food/music fests in our area? 9320-Man 1 points ago in askwomenadvice

    I wrote that she used to have a curiosity about me. She mentioned once that she always wondered what I was doing in the cafeteria at school. She asked another girl who she saw talking to me how she knew me. She had a ton of questions for me once I broke the ice. Told me she’s glad she met someone so modest.

    [–] Older guys who live with parents and aren’t really looking to move out soon, and have an SO, how? 9320-Man 1 points ago in AskReddit

    Wild. I want to move out but I just know it’s not the best time to. Either way, do what works best for you. Thanks for sharing!

    [–] Older guys who live with parents and aren’t really looking to move out soon, and have an SO, how? 9320-Man 0 points ago in AskReddit

    I also heard from many other people in a thread once...”if it says she’s not looking for hook ups, she’ll definitely end up hooking up”

    I tried Tinder but every girl pretty much looks like an Instagram model. Always dressed in that classy (slightly slutty) shit. Like either models, or are super spoiled by their family. There’s like no down to earth girl EVER.