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    [–] I’m against recreational use of drugs and alcohol. I should’t even bother making friends, right? 9320-Man 1 points ago in socialskills

    You’re right. My original post understandably didn’t make sense. I just kind of get upset when I see a post on drug use or drinking and start feeling alone again.

    [–] I’m against recreational use of drugs and alcohol. I should’t even bother making friends, right? 9320-Man 1 points ago in socialskills

    In every “era” of my life I’ve made one great friend. And am super approachable in social situations. My question was more direct for finding a girlfriend.

    [–] I’m against recreational use of drugs and alcohol. I should’t even bother making friends, right? 9320-Man -10 points ago in socialskills

    Kind of odd I suppose but I never liked people flocking to do something because it was seen done among others. I guess I’m a hipster in that sense.

    [–] I’m against recreational use of drugs and alcohol. I should’t even bother making friends, right? 9320-Man -10 points ago in socialskills

    Well they weren’t forcing it just asking at least three times through out any session. He’s gone anyway. I moved.

    Can you blame me for this assumption. All I’m seeing is that everyone’s tried or does it. This is just from my Year’s at school and work. Never met one person who was like me.

    [–] I’m against recreational use of drugs and alcohol. I should’t even bother making friends, right? 9320-Man -4 points ago in socialskills

    Every best friend I’ve made through the years has done one or both. I never told them shit how they should stop. I’ve denied heavily with one friend in particular who asked every time.

    ...my issue is more towards finding a girlfriend. I just can’t handle the thought of her doing it.

    [–] As the only person in the world who hates the idea of sex outside of a committed relationship, should I just give up? 9320-Man 2 points ago in dating_advice

    Insecurities aren’t attractive of course. I used to make posts about them because i wanted as much insight on what bothers me about my life.

    [–] As the only person in the world who hates the idea of sex outside of a committed relationship, should I just give up? 9320-Man 2 points ago in dating_advice

    I’ve had one gf my whole life (doubt that’ll change) and social media and this site and many of the posts I’ve made have shown that I’m alone with this view on sex. I’d wait a year for sex if the girl wanted that.

    [–] People that only look for meaningful relationships, where do you hide? 9320-Man 1 points ago in AskReddit

    Perhaps. The worst is how any comment I make in this site, I get tagged to r/niceguys . They just assume I’m like this because I cant get any with trying nonstop and assume all girls just want assholes.

    [–] People that only look for meaningful relationships, where do you hide? 9320-Man 1 points ago in AskReddit

    It really does seem that way. You’ve given me some hope though :) what’s worse is the cycle. Girl assumes guy doesn’t like her if he doesn’t push for sex. Girl is “easy” to get his interest. Guy (who looks for casual sex) just sees her as nothing else.