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    [–] AITA for considering breaking up with my (26M) girlfriend (24F) over her periods? Antwoord345 31 points ago in AmItheAsshole

    Oh wow, hi James! "C", here.

    You may have made a random account, but the details in this are so specific to us that you might as well have just posted this off your account.

    It's funny, literally yesterday I was telling you about something I read on AITA, is that where you got the idea to post this on here? I assume you knew of see it, which is equally as confusing since you've made no attempt to speak to me about this at all.

    We will speak in person but I'd like to say that you missed a lot out of your post. Yes, I have a lot of pain when my time of the month hits, yes it's very dramatic, not very pretty and is damn inconvenient. However, for the past 6 months I have been exercising, taking medications and holistic therapies. I have listened to you whine for months now and I have taken it on the chin.

    You did not encourage me to have the hysterectomy, you down right demanded I did, or else you'd leave me and take my dog. You were kind, or communicative. You were verbally abusive and viscous with your wording - "nobody wants a weak broken woman. If you want a good man then you've gotta fox yourself or youll be alone forever." I also remember you saying that my not wanting a hysterectomy was somehow indicative of my cheating. Unsure how the two correlate but there we go.

    Another thing, I am not sleeping on the sofa, I've moved out of the flat. Oh AND you don't need to decide whether to leave me or not because we have, in fact, already broken up.

    I see you've worded this in the kindest way possible, if only you were so thoughtful when communicating your concerns with me. You cheated on me because I quote "I don't wanna touch a vagina that I've seen bleed out to fuck".... You know that's all (or most) vaginas, right?!

    Thanks for making this post, it's been a good read but it's totally untrue and bias to your feelings.

    This is my problem, my body and my choice. You killed this relationship the second you told me I HAD to have the hysterectomy and tried to ring my doctor to make appts behind my back.

    You're a great guy but so out of touch with reality. Please don't delete this post, it'll be a good reminder on the days I miss you as to why I left.

    [–] Client abandoned his dog at my dog sitting service, how to move forward? Antwoord345 60 points ago in legaladvice

    I have taken photos of Charlie when I first got him and photos of him now, for comparison. Thank you so much for commenting, I'm very grateful.

    And no thanks needed at all, he's a wonderful dog and deserves a good, active and loving life!

    [–] Client abandoned his dog at my dog sitting service, how to move forward? Antwoord345 2198 points ago in legaladvice

    That's a great idea. I'll ring around the shelters tomorrow and try to find one that will help me out. If possible, I'll foster him until hes legally able to be out up for adoption and then I'll snap him up. I've sent an email to the owner now and will see if he replies. Thanks so much.

    [–] Client abandoned his dog at my dog sitting service, how to move forward? Antwoord345 704 points ago in legaladvice

    Thanks so much for commenting. I'm going to keep hold of Charlie, I don't want him going to a shelter. I'll email the owner, let him know how much he owes and offer to scrap all fees if he agrees to leave Charlie with me. Thanks a lot! It's a shame that beside that, there's not a lot I can do.

    [–] Client abandoned his dog at my dog sitting service, how to move forward? Antwoord345 1918 points ago in legaladvice

    I am currently in the process of typing up an email and text to the owner. I'm just trying to make sure I word it okay. Thanks for commenting, that's a real shame as it will break my heart to send him home with that man but I guess i have no actual legal rights. Thanks for letting me know!