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    [–] I got cat-called today, his friend said ‘don’t do that, she’s not a dog’ BestGarbagePerson 1 points ago in TwoXChromosomes

    Because it presumes that everytime a woman goes outside alone she's on some kind of public meat market for her body. That she "needs" an explicit comment like that, or "deserves" a an explicit comment. Really? Do you think you like to see porn ads everywhere you go for porn that isn't even your fetish?

    I wouldn't be surprised if there is a small subsection of the population that likes public degradation/exposition. Assuming every woman does like explicitly sexual things said to her everytime she ventures outside is fucking stupid as fuck and insulting.

    BTW, many minors pass as adults.

    If you wouldn't want some strange ass stranger saying it to your daughter, or saying it to your adult daughter WHILE SHE'S AT WORK then don't fucking say it.

    How come this never happens when I'm with a man (even if they aren't my boyfriend)?

    [–] What is a sign of maturity? BestGarbagePerson 1 points ago in AskReddit

    Not demanding attention from people.

    [–] More travelers say TripAdvisor blocked warnings of rape, injuries BestGarbagePerson 1 points ago in TwoXChromosomes

    Although mass shooting is high, has an absolutely miniscule relation to total crime. However, this may be a basic misunderstanding about total crime vs. crime that is reported.

    (i.e. the idiots who report crime rates in europe as higher than the us are too stupid to know just more people are willing to report crime)

    http://www.nationmaster.com/country-info/stats/Crime/Total-crimes-per-1000

    [–] TIL Thomas Jefferson believed Jesus's teachings were "the most sublime and benevolent code of morals which has ever been offered to man," but that they had been appropriated by his followers, resulting in a Bible that contained both "diamonds of wisdom" and the "dung" of ancient political agendas. BestGarbagePerson 2 points ago in todayilearned

    You quoted what I understand is a /pol/ meme or at least heavily known from /pol/.

    I had no idea. Like I assume a lot stuff we use now collectively (like "trying to make a change : /" came from cringepics) plenty of people don't know where it came from.

    Your joke was too deep for me and I apologize. In fact, if I came from /pol/ irl I'd probably understand it.

    No worries and thanks for explaining!

    [–] TIL Thomas Jefferson believed Jesus's teachings were "the most sublime and benevolent code of morals which has ever been offered to man," but that they had been appropriated by his followers, resulting in a Bible that contained both "diamonds of wisdom" and the "dung" of ancient political agendas. BestGarbagePerson 1 points ago in todayilearned

    What does claiming I'm from /pol/, a character attack made from belief you have about me that has no basis in reality, have to do with anything? Especially what does it have to do with the fact that Jefferson did own slaves?

    How in the fuck did you get from that to /pol/? And seriously, check my history, I'm a fucking SJW according to 4chan. I'm personally ruining reddit with my feminisms.

    [–] The Cam Girl Invasion of Twitch BestGarbagePerson 1 points ago in videos

    I actually would feel like I would have an easier time if I wasn't attractive at all. But being conventionally good looking, I feel the pressure that I would need to "look as good as" and "Be as cute" as the women that get 10,000s of views with showing their cleavage and therefore who's streams are top of the pile on the "search by" sections.

    I also worry about being sexualized in that way by immature males who don't understand that there are people who look like me who twitch because they like games alone.

    [–] Owner freaks out at family after her is Pitbull is shot for allegedly running out of control into their house BestGarbagePerson 1 points ago * (lasted edited 18 hours ago) in PublicFreakout

    Oh wow.. creepy. I had my suspicions about you, thanks for confirming them. You need help. Seriously. Wow.

    Creepy what?

    Oh lol. See what I mean! You get called out for your own bullshit claims with your own public posts, and so you decide to pull out the tried and true ad hominem. If you were any sort of expert, you just lost your own credibility by using such "expertise" to cover the holes in your own argument.

    Also, if you don't like being held accountable for your own words, then don't say them.

    ETA: You gave yourself away with using the words "psychopaths" and "sociopaths." Those words are not clinical and are widely criticized for being too vague.

    ""The concept and subsequent reification of the diagnosis “psychopathy” has, to this author’s mind, hampered the understanding of criminality and violence...According to Hare, in many cases one need not even meet the patient. Just rummage through his records to determine what items seemed to fit. Nonsense. To this writer’s mind, psychopathy and its synonyms (e.g., sociopathy and antisocial personality) are lazy diagnoses. Over the years the authors’ team has seen scores of offenders who, prior to evaluation by the authors, were dismissed as psychopaths or the like. Detailed, comprehensive psychiatric, neurological, and neuropsychological evaluations have uncovered a multitude of signs, symptoms, and behaviors indicative of such disorders as bipolar mood disorder, schizophrenia spectrum disorders, complex partial seizures, dissociative identity disorder, parasomnia, and, of course, brain damage/ dysfunction."

    https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Psychopathy#Measurement

    [–] The Cam Girl Invasion of Twitch BestGarbagePerson 1 points ago in videos

    You could argue that this disadvantages exists regardless of how females dress

    That's right. Do people attack others who have a naturally good voice? Just because the media includes video now, we then want to attack the image as if that's not important too, now that such media exists.

    but the allowance of suggestive dress at least amplifies the disadvantage.

    People should be allowed to dress however. Maybe twitch needs to make an 18+ section then the cammers who do show sexually suggestive stuff for $$ will have to compete like its a normal porn site, with people who want to be completely nude or masturbate or whatever. I would be totally for that!

    Users who just show cleavage however, obviously that's fine.

    [–] Owner freaks out at family after her is Pitbull is shot for allegedly running out of control into their house BestGarbagePerson 2 points ago in PublicFreakout

    You may need hours, I can spot Sociopaths and Psychopaths in seconds

    Cool story bro.

    I think I've met your type before tbh and its hilarious because usually as much as they claim to be experts in such things, they themselves end up in constant drama in their lives, as well as being (usually) projecting a lot of their own issues.

    For example you yourself in your own words:

    https://www.reddit.com/r/worldnews/comments/715w17/ontario_home_to_capital_of_canada_to_begin_zero/dn8itcs/

    https://www.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/comments/5379p0/redditors_who_are_considered_rich_what_is_your/d7rh99d/

    Sounds more like you have a delusional complex and may be projecting more of your own issues, than any actual such claimed skills as me.

    Or at least, had below average ability to read others before you read some self-help material and now declare yourself an expert:

    https://www.reddit.com/user/Numerolophile?sort=controversial&count=150&after=t1_divrxl7

    Up until i learned about microexpressions i was almost colorblind to the emotional states of those around me

    Given also what seemed to happen to you on r/VictoriaBC, you have a hard time accepting things outside of your control and believe you can get recognition from people and strangers merely by demanding it and that normal consequences for behavior (hm, that comment about your daddy being a lawyer who gets you out of anything) do not apply to you.

    The delusional shit is that you think you are an expert after reading some material somewhere.

    This:

    My entry into it was in artificial intelligence detecting shoplifters based on body language from video camera feeds for a loss prevention technology company.

    Is bullshit. Straight up I know this is a lie. 1) because the word "entry into" is vague. 2) Because I know for a fact the AI is still in it's very very beginning stages. There is no such thing.

    https://www.fastcompany.com/3064771/can-this-ai-powered-security-camera-learn-to-spot-fishy-behavior-as-it-happ

    Please don't slash my tires, bro.

    [–] Oddly Unsatisfying: Hibachi Chef Tries To Make Meal On A Regular Table BestGarbagePerson 1 points ago in videos

    I found this to be very satisfying actually. I'm a former line cook/sous chef though. It brought back pleasant memories.

    [–] The Cam Girl Invasion of Twitch BestGarbagePerson 1 points ago in videos

    As a woman i appreciate what you said. Let me add:

    There is the sense that telling a woman or girl that she cannot wear something because it titillates too much feels a bit like "well the rape victim was wearing a miniskirt so she was asking for it".

    I don't think the video suggests this or that it needs to be said at all. But imho, what I feel is that because there are twitchers who are monetizing their bodies for sexual favors, that if there is a woman who does look pretty and/or shows skin, that she will be expected to do so.

    There are a couple different types of "titty streamers" out there;

    Yes, totally agree. It's the headless ones that do "dances" for donations that bug me. I have no problem with women using their assets for views, just like a cute dude might, or a person with a nice voice for streaming would. My problem is the sexual content, which should be (imho) frowned upon because its not the platform for it imho. I have NOTHING (ZERO) against camgirls. I support that as a woman and a sex positive, sex worker supporting feminist. I just don't like it on twitch.

    The cam girl movement on Twitch, however, does totally smack of opportunistic people, be it Twitch or the titty streamers, taking advantage of a platform

    Totally agree with you. But I struggle because can you fault people for taking advantage? No camgirl should be attacked for it. I just personally wish twitch would take a stronger stance so the community returns more to being just about gaming.

    [–] The Cam Girl Invasion of Twitch BestGarbagePerson 2 points ago in videos

    I don't blame people for their fetishes, the problem is when they take it outside of where they can safely satisfy their niche, and their entitlement to women's bodies bleeds into other aspects of life. See: The "TITS OR GTFO" gamer.

    [–] The Cam Girl Invasion of Twitch BestGarbagePerson 2 points ago in videos

    The problem is it ruins it for girls like myself who don't want to sexualize themselves and just want to twitch. I feel like I can't compete.

    [–] Owner freaks out at family after her is Pitbull is shot for allegedly running out of control into their house BestGarbagePerson 1 points ago in PublicFreakout

    If a dog is killing you while wagging its tail it is still aggression.

    I disagreed with this statement mostly because dogs that are aggressive may or may not be wagging their tails, and a prey drive is not aggression but can also kill. Also no, if a dog is walking into a house unwanted it can be curious, chasing prey OR aggressive.

    [–] Women surgeons are punished more than men for the exact same mistakes, study finds BestGarbagePerson 3 points ago * (lasted edited 19 hours ago) in TwoXChromosomes

    I honestly wish this wasn't downvoted as much because this an opportunity here to show how toxic patriarchy harms both men and women.

    Men who are criminals are punished worse because they are expected to have higher standards in society. They are supposed to be the "pillars" of society. Emotionless, breadwinners etc. So when they don't meet these standards, they are scapegoated more, then women who are not expected to be "pillars." Women are expected to be "unstable" and therefore they are excused more for shitty behavior.

    Men are forgiven for professional mistakes more because it is seen that they are "striving" for "greatness."

    Women are not expected to try to achieve like men are and thus when they fail or make simple mistakes in the search for their professional greatness, they are punished more for trying in the first place, rather than the fact they made a mistake. Because women aren't supposed to try, you see.

    That's what's toxic about gender expectations. They harm both genders.

    Women are expected to fail. And when they do, they are shamed more for trying in the first place.

    Where men are expected to succeed. So when they are trying they are rewarded even when they make mistakes, as long as it is perceived they are fitting into the norm expectation for male greatness. But if men reject all of societies expectations (Either by being criminals, or rejecting fatherhood, or being a stay-at-home dad, or being "feminine" and showing emotions and empathy (aka being a fgg, bta, c*ck etc) they are punished for it severely. Just look at the words used to describe men who are "unmanly". Not only are there a ton of them and they're brutal, they're all related somehow to being feminine. Because feminine is weak and lesser. And masculine is great. Thus female criminals are given a pass. And male criminals are punished more. And females who try to be breadwinners are hazed and judged more harshly than men who are.

    Does this help at all? What are your thoughts?