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    [–] AITA for denying sex to my boyfriend? Bingalingbean123 0 points ago in AmItheAsshole

    You are being manipulated. He has spoke to his friends and they hve approached you about this deeply personal matter?!?! Shocking. I honestly hope you make him ex boyfriend soon and he can use his hand to have sexy with whenever he wants instead of abusing you. This is disgusting.

    [–] AITA for denying sex to my boyfriend? Bingalingbean123 8 points ago in AmItheAsshole

    NTA- and your bf sounds like a total cock. This is hard to read, I am sad you are with him and I am sorry you have to question yourself over his behaviour. You didn’t ask for relationship advice, but, this is not healthy and is not normal

    [–] uhmm! happy valentines day to everyone Bingalingbean123 3 points ago in pics

    I never get this Male friend thing where they attempt to humiliate each other and embarrass them as some form of “banter”. I love my friends I would do anything to prevent them from feeling humiliated. Maybe we re just more sensitive though

    [–] Have you ever dated someone because you both were lonely and just needed someone how did turn out? Bingalingbean123 2 points ago in AskMen

    Not me but I feel like every single one of my Friends who is in a relationship or married currently has made this decision. There is no way they are happy or could see that the person they feel they love is the one.

    [–] AITA for not volunteering to pick up my son? Bingalingbean123 62 points ago in AmItheAsshole

    YTA- just pick up your kid. How long a drive is it for your wife? Unless it’s a 5 minute journey for her than there doesn’t seem to be justification for you not to get him....

    [–] What's the pettiest reason you won't date someone over? Bingalingbean123 1 points ago in AskReddit

    You know when they are too short they fall under the natural tip? I hate that, I literally cannot stand it when the skin is above the edge of the nail.

    [–] I did it. It took me a year and paying nearly $30k in debt, but I did it. I never knew I could realize this level of calm and relief. Bingalingbean123 1 points ago * (lasted edited 3 days ago) in happy

    In only a year? I need to do this but I feel like it will take years and years and so I just don’t bother. Any tips?

    [–] Got sent this by my friend Bingalingbean123 2 points ago in niceguys

    Why send a pic? Even if it isn’t you, they are wanking to it and THEY WIN.

    [–] WIBTA for leaving my gf if she chose to keep the child in case of a pregnancy? Bingalingbean123 6 points ago in AmItheAsshole

    NAH- I think either way this relationship is over if this is genuinely how you feel thoigh. Either she keeps the baby and resent her for keeping the baby, or she has the abortion and she resents you for having an abortion which will effect her mentally for years to come. This is tough, ultimately babies are the risk of sex. But if you feel strongly that if she chose to not abort you’d leave her but stay in he babies life, perhaps consider just staying with her. The baby would be here either way in that scenario and it would be a lot easier for both of you to stay together. The threat of leaving her though is a bit assholey, feels a bit manipulative “if you keep the baby you will be doing it alone” is a tough decision to fight against though.

    [–] WIBTA for trying to save my friends life against her wishes? Bingalingbean123 1 points ago in AmItheAsshole

    Depression and suicidal thoughts are the direct result of a chemical imbalance. We are not talking about euthanasia, this is suicide.

    [–] WIBTA for trying to save my friends life against her wishes? Bingalingbean123 1 points ago in AmItheAsshole

    When someone is mentally unwell, which you are if you want to kill your self, than the brain is not functioning properly to decide that her true wishes are to die. During these times you should do everything and anything to save that persons life. If that is getting her help, than that is it. If that is trying to make their world brighter, then do that. Sitting back and doing nothing because that mentally unwell friend is telling you to, than you will carry that guilt forever. With suicide, the persons suffering ends, but the family, friends, colleagues and acquaintances lives change forever. The survivors of suicide live a life of torment they can never end without causing the same hurt they are feeling on others around them.

    [–] Old man tells woman to hurry up and marry her husband is passing comment and she runs to Reddit to cry about it Bingalingbean123 8 points ago in insanepeoplefacebook

    Are you the insane person in this scenario? As I do not see her reaction as insane, I see the old man as insane. I have a feeling this is a troll Post to make you feel better you can’t get a woman to suck you off.

    [–] AITA For Telling My Mom She's Insane For Blaming my Test Failure On Me? Bingalingbean123 3 points ago in AmItheAsshole

    NTA- but you need to explain this to your mum properly. She clearly does not understand how these thing work, a good thing is for you to sit down and explain how stressful this whole thing was and that her actions have directly affected your results. But say you are not mad and that you are just upset as you care a lot about your grades and this was a real setback. Hopefully she will understand her part in this. If not, there is no point getting mad. Just accept it and move on.

    [–] TAGGED VS PROFILE PICTURE Bingalingbean123 17 points ago in Instagramreality

    I do not get this look. Why do so many girls look like this now. Fake tits, fake skin, fake hair, fake teeth, fake nails, fake eyelashes, fake eyebrows.....

    [–] AITA for calling out a customer when she dumped her basket of groceries in a freezer bin? Bingalingbean123 2 points ago in AmItheAsshole

    NTA- however, to keep your job, best to go on a line of when you see this stuff say “let me help you with that mam, did you not require this anymore? Next time, just let one of us know and we will be happy to help you so this food doesn’t get misplaced in the freezer and get thrown out” you can’t change people like thsi, and you’d still have to put it back. But this way she can’t complain and she knows she’s been caught.

    [–] How to lose weight fast? Bingalingbean123 1 points ago in AskMen

    Drinking no other drinks but water. Drink a glass before every time you eat and then wait 15 minutes and have a glass whilst you eat. Eat something small (some fruit, veg a protein bar) at 4pm, thsi way when dinner comes you don’t eat so much as you are not starving. Start slow at the gym, walk, do not do anything that makes you miserable (I HATE biking, so do any other cardio but) find out when you eat the most and then set a new routine. So if you mostly boredom snack of an evening you need to do soemthing to fill that time in, go for a walk, read a book, maybe this can be your gym time? Meal prep for the next day. Meal prepping is one of the best diet tips around. Doesn’t need to be complicated. Chicken, rice, broccoli. Tuna, couscous, mixed veg etc