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    [–] I hate dating DeltaCharlieEcho 1 points ago in dating

    Read your clickbait headline again, slower this time.

    [–] I hate dating DeltaCharlieEcho 1 points ago in dating

    You and everyone else

    [–] So what can a guy do if he has no game? DeltaCharlieEcho 1 points ago in dating

    The only advice anyone can give you is to get more confident; you obviously have areas of your life where you aren't confident and they are overshadowing the areas of your life where you are. You fixate on your "lost time" to your social issues, instead of seeing what value you have to others. I'm not rich, I'm not traditionally handsome, I'm not part of a close family... To many others these may seem like un-winnable traits, and yet I get that interested smile in response to my smile while walking down the street purely because I know what I have and who I am. What I lack in substantial value, I make up for in potential; What I lack in emotional stability, I makeup for in my infinite well of devotion and love for my friends and people I generally care about. I'm a capable fighter and would happily take a bullet to give someone another shot at life. These are all positive traits I see in myself that far overshadow my other issues. The way I carry myself presents this to anyone and everyone that wants or needs to now.

    You're finding excuses, not finding reasons to be confident; you're asking for help and not accepting that what I'm providing you is the best help you'll ever get. It's not my job to tell you how to use the information, it's my job to open your eyes to the existence of the information in the first place.

    [–] So what can a guy do if he has no game? DeltaCharlieEcho 1 points ago in dating

    I have major anxiety and depression that, in the flip of a switch I can go from completely fine to considering jumping off a parking deck, walk into traffic, or try to choke myself out with a belt. You're not special, your social issues aren't an excuse for your lack of confidence. If you want sympathy, get it from someone else because you will find none here.

    [–] So what can a guy do if he has no game? DeltaCharlieEcho 1 points ago in dating

    And yet, you're still asking strangers on the internet how to flirt. You lack real confidence.

    [–] So what can a guy do if he has no game? DeltaCharlieEcho 1 points ago in dating

    Be more confident. Find something you like doing, watching, researching, whatever and unabashedly do it to the extent that you are capable. Don't make it your life but don't do it apologetically. Be interested in yourself and be interested in others. Do not expect others to be interested in you if you can't hold the interest yourself.

    Short answer is just be more confident in yourself, you're cool enough, but you need others to believe it too.

    [–] The ‘You deserve better’ speech DeltaCharlieEcho 1 points ago in dating

    The "You Deserve Better" speech is really just the "You're not good enough" speech. It's the same thing with different branding.

    [–] So what can a guy do if he has no game? DeltaCharlieEcho 1 points ago in dating

    You're asking for advice on the internet, you have no confidence that anyone can see.

    [–] How to convey they are in they friendzone so they get it [M⬆️30's] to female [F⬇️30's] Here goes... DeltaCharlieEcho 1 points ago in dating

    I don't care what you said. You said friendzone, all further conversation, points, positions, ect are void on that fact alone.

    You're 30 god damned years old, act like it.

    [–] How to convey they are in they friendzone so they get it [M⬆️30's] to female [F⬇️30's] Here goes... DeltaCharlieEcho 1 points ago in dating

    There is no "friend zone". You just don't understand what you want or are doing. You either have interest in him at some deeply buried level or you're just using him for attention. Either way, stop wasting his time and tell him you're not interested and stop talking to him.

    Child

    [–] Tone down the affection DeltaCharlieEcho 1 points ago in dating

    Date less stupid girls bro. Good luck.

    [–] Which Columbus brewery makes the best stout? DeltaCharlieEcho 1 points ago in Columbus

    I like Columbus Brewing Company's stuff but can't place any names right now. They make good porters and stouts.

    [–] I am a cop, I pretty much always let kids go when I catch them drinking or smoking pot. DeltaCharlieEcho 1 points ago in confession

    If you work with the police and have a tendency to do what's right for the community, you're not a cop. There's a massive difference between cops and police; cops are dirty, for profit, assholes that will jump at nearly any opportunity to write a ticket or put their hand on their gun... They're cowards. The Police on the other hand are an honorable branch of civil protection; in most cases the police tend to ignore specifically and directly written policies including quotas to ensure that the general public is safe, pulling people over just to tell them the speed limit is actually a little lower where they are now and to inform them that opportunistic cops will write them a ticket if they get caught; telling you that there are a lot of accidents at a specific intersection so just make sure to be careful when turning on red; stuff like that.

    You're a good dude, keep being a responsible representative of your profession, maybe it'll bring some respect back to your line of work.

    Peace, friend.

    [–] Columbus is growing with growing problems. DeltaCharlieEcho -1 points ago in Columbus

    While it is true that most cities have a higher concentration of democrats, it is not true that they're liberal. The political ideology of democrats has done a complete 180 and is now looking to increase regulation, legislation, and government size all while increasing the cost to tax payers and starting more wars. The state of politics is pretty much is a gridlock of "No, you!" between both sides and you can see this pretty clearly if you work in a retail setting where you have to indulge people in their conversations. Columbus is VERY democrat compared to many other cities in the region.

    [–] So what can a guy do if he has no game? DeltaCharlieEcho 1 points ago in dating

    You apparently do lack confidence or you wouldn't be asking strangers online for dating help.

    [–] So what can a guy do if he has no game? DeltaCharlieEcho 3 points ago in dating

    You do realize that "game" is pretty much just shorthand for confidence, right?

    [–] Columbus is growing with growing problems. DeltaCharlieEcho 9 points ago in Columbus

    I don't know if you're talking about the sub or columbus but the city is extremely leftist in most areas. Not a judgmental observation, just an observation. Even in more conservative towns there are a ton of progressive leaning folk that really make every effort to tell others about their position and just assume similarity in mentality.

    I don't really know about the sub, haven't been here that long, but the city is definitely very political; how couldn't it be, it's ohio's capital.

    [–] How has growing up in dysfunctional family affected your dating life and relationships? DeltaCharlieEcho 1 points ago in dating

    I wouldn't say that my family was dysfunctional, but my family was not close. At one time it was, but we moved to be closer to my dad's immediately family and we became more distant. I know people that grew up in warm and loving households with large extended families, and life is much easier for them; they have a much better support system and hard times aren't as hard because of that system. I grew up an only child in a family that really had nothing beyond the direct family unit that lived in my house and my uncle; it is difficult for me because I don't have that support system, just my parents and my uncle occasionally reaches out to me but that's really it. I seek love, relationships, family so I can raise my kids in a way contrary to the way I was raised. I want my kids to have a happier life or access to the tools that make life simpler; a large extended family, at least one sibling near their age range, and parents that show warmth and love. Life is easier with the support system.

    Point being, you need to recognize your weaknesses and develop them into strengths. You are a product of your life, but it doesn't have to be a bad thing.

    [–] Found out I have High functioning autism at 25. Won’t tell my parents because the guilt might destroy them. DeltaCharlieEcho 1 points ago in confession

    I'll tell you this, maybe it'd be a relief for the parent, but it would be a nightmare for the kid. I've often questioned myself and thought that I may have some sort of issue similar to autism or being on the spectrum somehow; If I was to get tested and get the diagnosis of being autistic, I'd stop thinking about killing myself and just do it. It would explain all of my past failures and assure me that my future would be more of the same; I would not be able to live like that.

    The father's relief would be selfish as fuck, but damn, think about the kid.