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    [–] Boyfriend (26M) hit me and I (26F) am worried he's dead EEJR 26 points ago in relationship_advice

    Addicts will do ANYTHING to get what they want. He might be clean, but maybe not. Addicts will relapse over and over again. He has been abusive and took it up a notch and putnhands on you. Next time, you might be the one dead. Start taking action, call the police, start working on separating yourself from the house legally.

    [–] Boyfriend made me uncomfortable last night but I can’t tell if I’m overreacting EEJR 1 points ago in relationships

    Well he didn't.

    Pretty sure OP made it known (maybe murky) about being affectionate with other women.

    [–] My fiancé (m27) cheated on me while I (F26) was in a coma. EEJR 5 points ago in relationship_advice

    I think it's cheating.

    He could have sought out comfort WITHOUT sex. A therapist, his family, your family, his or your friends. Instead he chose to have sex with presumably a stranger.

    It's plain disrepectful, whether or not you would have woken up.

    If he had no intentions of staying with you if and when you woke up, that would be one thing, but the fact that he picked up where he left off, and still hasn't told you is bull. Instead he stood by your side when you woke up as if he had been waiting for you.

    I personally would break it off. You were engaged and planning to make promises of in SICKNESS and in health and he doesn't seem ready for that.

    [–] Open letter to reddit, since I have no one else to talk to. EEJR 3 points ago in DeadBedrooms

    Why are you still waiting hand and foot on her, then? She can make her own meals and take care of the kids too.

    [–] We had twins (boy/girl) after 3 boys but all anyone cares about is my daughter. Am I being too emotional about this? EEJR 3 points ago in Parenting

    My mom had nothing after her divorce from an alcoholic, abusive man who would steal everything, to the point my mom had to wear her money to bed. No car but a few pieces of furniture and a newborn. She returned every gift my dad's mother tried to give me. No regrets.

    [–] [Question] [Vault] EEJR 1 points ago in falloutshelter

    The vertical line that is on your meter shows when rooms will start losing power. If the line is at the 3/4 mark, you should add another power room or upgrade the ones you have.

    [–] Let’s make life harder for underpaid retail workers! It’s so funny EEJR 3 points ago in trashy

    I hate this! People want to buy nice things and she throws it all over the dirty floor. Those are being given to kids and what not.

    [–] Debt Collectors chasing me for friends debts EEJR 1 points ago * (lasted edited 4 days ago) in legaladvice

    That might be a best practice at that company.

    However, to get a collector to stop contacting you, at any time, send a letter by mail asking for contact to stop.

    Which means your are validating who you are. Anyone can say "it's not me".

    edit to add: they are prohibited from repeatedly use the phone to annoy you. That means calling multiple times a day. However, if they have reason to believe you are that person, and such person has not validated their identity while insisting DNC, they continue.

    [–] [Question][Vault] EEJR 3 points ago in falloutshelter

    At the required levels?

    [–] Debt Collectors chasing me for friends debts EEJR -9 points ago in legaladvice

    In US, if you don't provide those details, they have merit to continue calling.

    I worked for a US debt collector and had a similar situation to this.

    [–] This Is Us [Episode Discussion] - S03E12 - Songbird Road: Part Two EEJR 3 points ago in thisisus

    Well, the anticipation is gone.

    We know how Jack died, and we know where his brother is, those were two HUGE plots from the beginning.

    While there are a ton of plots that still need to be explored, they didn't build them around these large plots and some things are getting repetitive. Taking in an estranged family member, again?

    [–] Jana opening a business? EEJR 3 points ago in CountingOn

    Never thought of that! My guess a while back is that she is moving into her own home, maybe full of projects?

    [–] Counting On - S09E01 - Love Is in the Air - Episode Discussion Thread EEJR 15 points ago in CountingOn

    Ok but this setup looks sooo cute!

    Petal heart, vintage plane, a billboard!? Dreamy!

    [–] Neighbor wants the survey we commissioned. Do we have to give it to her? EEJR 3 points ago in homeowners

    Yeah, she can contract her own survey to be done. Of course her attorney would tell her it's fantastic to buy a survey for half... It saves HER money.

    [–] Is Kylie Jenner the wealthiest person at the Grammys tonight? EEJR 6 points ago in KUWTK

    My only idea is that while her business is worth millions, that cash is not for her personal use or liquid for that matter, but it does make her net worth go up.

    [–] [MN] A girl is planning to claim I am the father of her baby when we never had sex EEJR 33 points ago in legaladvice

    To be honest, I don't know. Could a dead person be able to assume those rights? How would a person obtain social security for their minor child?