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    [–] Lesbians married to guys? FuzzyKittenIsFuzzy 12 points ago in latterdaysaints

    He may be asking because the only other time I can recall someone posting this question in the last several years, her fiance hadn't been informed and she was very insistent that she would never inform him. IMO (and in the opinion of the vast majority of people who commented on that thread) there's a huge difference between a mixed orientation marriage where both parties consent and a mixed orientation marriage where one party is in the dark. The first one can end well or badly and it's a very personal decision to make, but the second one is a violation of someone's agency and the church has some strong things to say about it too.

    [–] Question about restraining/no contact/stay away orders FuzzyKittenIsFuzzy 2 points ago in legaladvice

    How long ago did she tell you they will be in contact?

    Generally it's very easy for someone to get a temporary restraining order, however it's even easier to lie about getting one.

    If you never ever have any kind of contact with her and her associates ever again, it probably will not be extended to a long term order.

    Cease all contact if you haven't already. Get therapy. Find a nice girl IRL.

    [–] My employer is trying to force me into mental health counseling by putting my employment on the line [update] FuzzyKittenIsFuzzy 66 points ago in legaladvice

    They can straight up fire you for your statements even though they occurred outside of work. In this case they are offering you another option. Either they fire you, or you get mental health clearance. They aren't required to do that, they can just fire you instead. And if you make a fuss you can bet that's what they'll do.

    [–] Toddler hacks FuzzyKittenIsFuzzy 3 points ago in breakingmom

    What type of glue is best? My toddler is obsessed with getting all the lids screwed off all the containers so I need something really strong.

    [–] Toddler hacks FuzzyKittenIsFuzzy 3 points ago in breakingmom

    What type of glue is best? My toddler is obsessed with getting all the lids screwed off all the containers so I need something really strong.

    [–] oof FuzzyKittenIsFuzzy 1 points ago in dankchristianmemes

    Pro-tip: those are usually fungal. A little athlete's foot ointment is what works for me. Sounds weird I know.

    [–] LAOP would like to report their therapist and psychiatrist, who also happen to be their mother's therapist and psychiatrist. FuzzyKittenIsFuzzy 61 points ago in bestoflegaladvice

    OP names four drugs the doctor prescribed and asserts the doctor gets kickbacks for every Rx he wrote. All four are generic. Who on Earth does OP think is paying the doctor to prescribe generics?? This has got to be the weirdest Big Pharma accusation I've ever seen.

    [–] Marking the 19th anniversary of Asha Degree’s disappearance FuzzyKittenIsFuzzy 7 points ago in UnresolvedMysteries

    The timeline given by the parents doesn't add up, at least according to a write-up I read here a while back. I don't think the parents were involved in her disappearance, but I wonder if they had a drug problem or something. If she thought her parents were nice people but they never had time for her because they were getting high, she could have been extra vulnerable to grooming by another adult. (I have no connection to the family and no way of knowing whether they were using, it's just a possibility.)

    [–] Marking the 19th anniversary of Asha Degree’s disappearance FuzzyKittenIsFuzzy 34 points ago in UnresolvedMysteries

    I have always thought the shed was staged by the perp. A candy wrapper trail would fit right in with that.

    Specifically, I think she met the perp at the shed and he made sure to leave a huge amount of evidence that she'd been inside. He wanted police to focus on the shed and the area around the shed so that he would have more time to clean up the second location and dispose of evidence.

    [–] Okay to take morning fluvoxamine at night? FuzzyKittenIsFuzzy 1 points ago in Psychiatry

    Ask your prescriber. No one here has enough information about you to answer these questions.

    [–] Issues with BYU honor code FuzzyKittenIsFuzzy -1 points ago in latterdaysaints

    There are many, many situations in life where it's smart to agree to arbitrary rules. Most of them have nothing to do with religion.

    This mindset is what leads people to yell "am I being detained??" at police officers.

    If someone tells you to jump through a hoop in order to get a million dollars, would you say "nah, that's arbitrary"?

    I didn't go to BYU and I have no idea whether he should go there, but this mindset is going to make him miserable no matter where he goes to school.

    [–] We are a hate sub and should be punished to death FuzzyKittenIsFuzzy 25 points ago in exmuslim

    It's very simple. Killing others is okay if you're in the right, and it's not okay if you aren't in the right. There is no need for equal treatment of different groups when one group is right and the others are wrong. /S

    [–] [Meta] How to improve FuzzyKittenIsFuzzy 1 points ago in Psychiatry

    I can respect that. Layperson anecdotes don't belong on the sub, whether in posts or comments. The only thing they'd be able to add to such a post would be a link, e.g. a qualitative study about physician experiences or a magazine article discussing hidden implementation costs. If that kind of post is what we'd primarily have here, a private sub is probably best.

    [–] Worst. Magic trick. Ever. FuzzyKittenIsFuzzy 4 points ago in nursing

    I was taught cold = stiffer tube = doesn't coil back on itself as much, making insertion faster and more likely to end in the right place. Also has a small numbing effect.

    [–] My uncle visiting from the Philippines has never seen snow. This is what happened today. FuzzyKittenIsFuzzy 27 points ago in pics

    This causes no end of confusion in our house.

    Me: It's freezing today. Where are my slippers?

    DH, who was raised in Hawaii: Slippers? Why do you want slippers?

    Me: Because I'm cold.

    DH: Sure, but why slippers? Especially in the house?

    Me: Slippers. Not flip-flops, slippers. Fuzzy, padded, warm. Slippers.

    DH: Oh, right. Yeah. Slippers.

    [–] My uncle visiting from the Philippines has never seen snow. This is what happened today. FuzzyKittenIsFuzzy 5 points ago in pics

    Yeah but we have lead-lined suits and they don't.

    (Kidding, but enjoying the fact that a surprising number of Western Washingtonians won't be sure about that.)