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    [–] My father (38) beats my mother (37). INeedHelp_Really 1 points ago in legaladvice

    Yes, I know it's up to her to decide what to do, I will tell her what she can do to make everything better. But if she doesn't want to I'll have to take actions by myself. Thanks for saying those nice things at the end and for trying to help, it really means a lot :)

    [–] My father (38) beats my mother (37). INeedHelp_Really 1 points ago in legaladvice

    Oh, yes that's actually a good idea. I'll try to do this, it will be easy to not get caught! Thank you

    [–] My father (38) beats my mother (37). INeedHelp_Really 1 points ago in legaladvice

    Gracias, voy a ver que puedo hacer con esta info. Lo aprecio mucho, de verdad.

    [–] My father (38) beats my mother (37). INeedHelp_Really 1 points ago in legaladvice

    No, I don't want to confront him (I'll just do it as a last resort if things get really bad) or tell him I will call the police, I know it's a bad idea. And excuse me but I don't get what a "journal of events" is.

    I will try to follow your advices, the job is up to her, I don't want to obligate her to do something she doesn't want.

    It's hard for me to not intervene sometimes, but I just do it if he hits her.

    I will involve my mom in this, I won't do this alone and I want her to know everything we can do. I hope this answers everything.

    [–] My father (38) beats my mother (37). INeedHelp_Really 1 points ago in legaladvice

    I mean we could, but that would mean me missing school, spending a lot of money we don't have, etc. I don't think it's a good idea.

    [–] My father (38) beats my mother (37). INeedHelp_Really 1 points ago in legaladvice

    Gracias, vivo al sur de Argentina. Creo que va en contra de las reglas decir un lugar exacto asi que no puedo.

    [–] My father (38) beats my mother (37). INeedHelp_Really 2 points ago in legaladvice

    Muchas gracias de verdad esto ayuda mucho. Le contare sobre esto.

    [–] My father is abusive towards my mom (serious) INeedHelp_Really 5 points ago in NoStupidQuestions

    I'm sorry if I didn't put a question, but it was meant to be "what can I do in this situation?"

    [–] My father is abusive towards my mom (serious) INeedHelp_Really 1 points ago in NoStupidQuestions

    Already posted there, it gained more attention here haha

    [–] My father is abusive towards my mom (serious) INeedHelp_Really 6 points ago in NoStupidQuestions

    Wow, this is almost exactly my situation, they still parent me but I can see they do it less now than 1 year ago. I have good grades in school and started being lazy some weeks ago, I don't know why. My mom usually says stuff that makes stuff worse too.

    This really helped me, it was perfect. Thank you.

    [–] My father is abusive towards my mom (serious) INeedHelp_Really 2 points ago in NoStupidQuestions

    No, mi mama no trabaja y no tenemos ni familiares ni amigos cercanos donde vivimos. Nos mudamos hace unos 3 años y todos los "amigos" que tienen son de parte de mi papa.

    Ya me hablo Dr Genial, se que es bastante conocido en el sub asi que confio en el. Y gracias por el apoyo, de verdad hace que me sienta mejor.

    [–] My father is abusive towards my mom (serious) INeedHelp_Really 1 points ago in NoStupidQuestions

    Thank you, it makes me happy reading stuff like this. So yes, you are helping in other ways!

    [–] My father is abusive towards my mom (serious) INeedHelp_Really 1 points ago in NoStupidQuestions

    Por ahora estoy bien, no necesito mas ayuda. Gracias igualmente :)

    [–] r/argentina, uno de los suyos necesita ayuda urgente INeedHelp_Really 3 points ago in argentina

    Muchas gracias por postear aca, significa mucho para mi. Recibi mucha ayuda de argentinos ahi tambien. :)

    [–] r/argentina, uno de los suyos necesita ayuda urgente INeedHelp_Really 5 points ago in argentina

    Si, esto seguramente es lo que vamos a hacer. Gracias por toda la ayuda, de verdad.

    [–] My father is abusive towards my mom (serious) INeedHelp_Really 5 points ago in NoStupidQuestions

    Thanks for the advice, I'm really bad at calming her down but I try my best.

    [–] My father is abusive towards my mom (serious) INeedHelp_Really 4 points ago in NoStupidQuestions

    Voy a asegurarme de mostarle esto, parece bastante util. Muchisimas gracias, creo que esto es lo que terminaremos haciendo, pero ya veremos.

    [–] My father is abusive towards my mom (serious) INeedHelp_Really 8 points ago in NoStupidQuestions

    Thank you, if I need help I'll ask. But I think that what I got is more than enough. And yes, I will protect my sister no matter what. I love her.

    [–] My father is abusive towards my mom (serious) INeedHelp_Really 132 points ago in NoStupidQuestions

    Yes, I love them a lot. I don't want my sister to grow up in a house like this. It will teach her te wrong things.

    [–] My father is abusive towards my mom (serious) INeedHelp_Really 61 points ago in NoStupidQuestions

    No no, this post was made with the intention of getting links and organization names, so I can tell her about it, and also, like I said in another comment, I'll do a plan if things go wrong (for example: he hits her and she bleeds). My intention is not to go tomorrow and call the police, tell a teacher and find a home, it is to know what I can and can't do. Sorry if I seem like an idiot.

    And about the family part, no, we don't have family or close friends where we are currently living. If that was the case we would have moved there a long time ago.

    [–] My father is abusive towards my mom (serious) INeedHelp_Really 2 points ago in NoStupidQuestions

    That's a really interesting way of seeing it, you put it in perfect words to be honest. I hadn't thought about it that way. Thank you for commenting, it made me think.