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    [–] Women are incapable of rape. Most men have a desire to rape women. I'm totally not a bigot for hating all men. JestyerAverageJoe 1 points ago in TumblrInAction

    Thank you for having the courage and intellectual honesty to be open to having your worldview expanded. :-) Many people are so fixated on being "right" that they cannot stand to question themselves to see if they really are. Of course, that's how you stop growing as a person.

    For the record, I used to call myself a feminist. :-)

    [–] Women are incapable of rape. Most men have a desire to rape women. I'm totally not a bigot for hating all men. JestyerAverageJoe 1 points ago in TumblrInAction

    Can you share a link? Accept my apologies for assuming that you merely fell silent; I've grown unfortunately accustomed to feminists who evaporate at the first sign of accountability. :-)

    [–] Women are incapable of rape. Most men have a desire to rape women. I'm totally not a bigot for hating all men. JestyerAverageJoe 1 points ago in TumblrInAction

    No response, /u/lurklark? If you consider yourself a feminist but never call our your fellow feminists for their misdeeds, you are complicit in the furtherance of their hatred. The unwillingness of feminists to hold other feminists accountable is the primary reason the feminist movement is morally bankrupt.

    [–] Desperate feminists now attempting to gaslight men about sex robots, claiming that it will make men, not women, obsolete. JestyerAverageJoe 6 points ago in MensRights

    The idea of most women working all their lives to support a robot that stays at home and waits for them to want to have sex is hilarious. I'm perfectly fine with the man-hating women that believe a robot will provide the emotional and financial stability that most women want choosing to exclude themselves from the gene pool. Let Darwin do his work.

    [–] Found on the streets of Paris JestyerAverageJoe 1 points ago in TumblrInAction

    In much the same way that bitching about downvotes proves you don't care about karma, the fact that you have to keep replying to get the last word in really drives home how much you just don't care at all, racist.

    [–] Found on the streets of Paris JestyerAverageJoe 1 points ago in TumblrInAction

    Let me get my tiny violin for your injured feefees, racist.

    [–] Found on the streets of Paris JestyerAverageJoe 1 points ago in TumblrInAction

    Keep bitching and I might go back and downvote you, stupid.

    [–] Found on the streets of Paris JestyerAverageJoe 1 points ago in TumblrInAction

    Okay, then people who care about sexual orientation enough to have a parade are heterophobes. I compared "gay" and "white," whereas you turned this into "gay" and "racist," which ironically makes you the racist.

    I'm not downvoting you. I'm just pointing out your hypocrisy. But, bitching about being downvoted is a surefire way to get more downvotes. Don't tempt me.

    [–] Found on the streets of Paris JestyerAverageJoe 1 points ago in TumblrInAction

    Being white isn't being racist, stupid.

    [–] Found on the streets of Paris JestyerAverageJoe 2 points ago in TumblrInAction

    So you'd be perfectly fine with a white pride parade, right?

    Remember, if you aren't, it's because you might not like white people.

    [–] Found on the streets of Paris JestyerAverageJoe 2 points ago in TumblrInAction

    Why are feminists so obsessed with their vaginas, but so quick to accuse men of being obsessed with their penises? Despite, you know, the total lack of body-empowering "I'm beautiful because of my chode!" bullshit for men. Oh yeah, projection.

    [–] Heterosexual male culture must be destroyed. JestyerAverageJoe 19 points ago in TumblrInAction

    Men began to see me as a target for sexual exploitation

    Humblebrag some?

    [–] “Fat Studies” JestyerAverageJoe 1 points ago in TumblrInAction

    "Good fatty" is a thing?

    Fuck it. Goodbye, cruel world.

    [–] Huffington Post editor incites her followers to mass murder against men JestyerAverageJoe 1 points ago in MensRights

    "Rape all women."

    You're too illiterate to understand it.

    In other news, your integrity is shit. One moment you're attacking me with repetitions of insults like an idiot, and the next you're waxing poetic on the harm caused by what you defended mere moments before. Are you split personality, or are you just useless at trolling?

    [–] Huffington Post editor incites her followers to mass murder against men JestyerAverageJoe 1 points ago in MensRights

    The idea of "killing all people" of a given type should be self-evidently reprehensible to any human who isn't a sociopath, gender Nazi.

    [–] Huffington Post editor incites her followers to mass murder against men JestyerAverageJoe 1 points ago in MensRights

    I understand the KillAllMen stuff is genuinely upsetting for MRAs, and is not going to be gotten over. So over the last year or two I have several times pointed that out to feminists. I have asked them not to do it. I pointed out it is both strategically counterproductive and cruel to men who often have been traumatised in various ways by women and find it hard to take a joke, in the same ways that are very familiar to feminists regarding rape and DV jokes.

    This immediately on the heels of

    a bit of man-massacring is nothing to be alarmed about

    Seriously?

    I'm far less interested in hypothesizing about whether or not she is a radical feminist who wants to abolish gender roles entirely, or whether she is a third-wave feminist who merely wants to completely redefine them (as though there is a substantive difference between these positions), than I am interested in holding you to task for excusing away "killing all men" as a hilarious obvious joke, only to about-face when confronted and declare it self-evidently unacceptable.

    You know, after telling me how stupid and illiterate I am and how I'm an idiot conspiracy theorist who should give up thinking altogether.

    Pick a personality and stick with it.

    [–] List of reputable Men’s and Women’s Rights organizations? JestyerAverageJoe 1 points ago * (lasted edited 17 days ago) in MensRights

    This is something I've seen many times. A lot of men and women here who used to be feminist or sympathetic to some extent were treated badly by feminists when they needed support, or witnessed that, and changed their view of feminists completely.

    Yep. I'm one of those many people. I was a feminist until enough experiences with "normal everyday" feminists drove me away forever. There are only so many times that you can stand being attacked and demonized. There are only so many times that you can stand being told that there is no place for issues affecting those kinds of people. (You know. Penis people.)

    Invalidation is hugely hurtful and damaging.

    You mean like

    Nobody with basic reading and cultural literacy can see anything about genocide here.

    or

    get your cock in a knot

    or

    The tactic of erasing genuine differences, especially of context, is a favourite tactic of dominant groups who don't want to do the work of trying to understand other groups.

    or

    This did not need explaining in the first place.

    or

    your initial position shows you are going to be pretty much impossible to reach

    or

    I don't know that it is a good idea for you to think more about this because of the risk the conspiracy will need to be extended to include each new thing you think about.

    or

    You have a selective reading disability caused by the intense emotions you are experiencing preventing your higher thought processes from operating. A normal person would not have any difficulty seeing this for what it is.

    You mean like that? Tell me more about invalidation and how incredibly hurtful and damaging it is.

    I hope you are getting some help other than venting on here.

    No, I'm not. You try dealing with being told that your experience should "help you have sympathy for what all women have to go through at the hands of men." You try seeing a therapist only to be told that your discomfort with widespread misandry and hateful feminists means that you must necessarily just have "anger issues about women." You try being told that the best way to help men is to "listen to women and believe them." You try being told that "#metoo isn't for you."