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    [–] What does everyone on here do for a living? Jitenon 3 points ago in findapath

    Lol, seems like we’re in the same boat then. Didn’t think it would be an issue with animation, seeing as how art isn’t a male dominated industry. Construction is arguably worse with sexism than plumbing. They use the “men are biologically stronger than women” to undermine constantly.

    [–] What does everyone on here do for a living? Jitenon 7 points ago in findapath

    Mostly old guys, but insecure young guys also didn’t like having me around. I kind of run into the same problem cooking, but much less so. I recently got a job with a surprising balance of genders so hopefully I catch a break from the old school sexism

    [–] What does everyone on here do for a living? Jitenon 2 points ago in findapath

    Started as a cook, did plumbing for a bit and didn’t like it for multiple reasons, currently back in university to get into sonography. Back to cooking PT until then

    [–] How have you survived a toxic work environment? Jitenon 6 points ago in jobs

    I've been in the female team member's positions in a couple jobs I've worked before (also in two different male dominated industries)

    If there's nothing you can do to get the behaviour to stop, which by your description of the corrupt hierarchy is obviously the case, then just a quick mention of "sorry you've been treated like this, hope the next job you work is a positive experience for you" is nice. I would have appreciated hearing that from someone when I was being antagonized and belittled every day.

    There's no 'surviving' a work dynamic that is completely redundant. The first chance you have for a new job, take it and get out.

    [–] AITA for saying I’m getting a hotel with or without my wife Jitenon 28 points ago in AmItheAsshole

    This is nitpicking at its finest right here. OP has no obligation to sleep beside someone regardless. It's a reality that recovering addicts will have undesirable issues and tendencies that follow them, and it's not like he said it was because the cousin is gay or black or something. JFC

    [–] AITA for getting my husband kicked out of the delivery room? Jitenon 33 points ago in AmItheAsshole

    Wow, 3 weeks later and he's acting the same age as your newborn? I heavily recommend couple's therapy. This manchild clearly doesn't understand anything. He should be GROVELING for YOUR forgiveness. If he refuses the counseling, I would personally be reconsidering the marriage, because that would signal potential repeats of this type of unacceptable behaviour.

    Also, show him this thread. His skull must be thicker than the world's largest aquarium's glass.

    [–] Uhhhh...excuse me? Jitenon 2 points ago in yiffinhell

    Try redbubble lol

    [–] AITA for donating my daughters college fund instead of giving it to my step daughter to help buy a house Jitenon 1 points ago in AmItheAsshole

    Oooh NY, I've seen tons of redditors on here talk about how astronomically overpriced it is there. Where I live, 13K would pay my mortgage for 1.25 years

    [–] 3 years on Instagram turned a lovely girl into this Jitenon 9 points ago in Instagramreality

    This exactly. When I first made an ig account, they automatically subscribed me to a bunch of thinspo/“influencers”. Even completely staying away from toxic shit like that, it was still shoved in my face. Deleted the account less than a month later

    [–] Fiance dumped me over a prenup! Jitenon 15 points ago in relationships

    Whenever I see a “everything was great... then it wasn’t!” I’m always sceptical that the OP has done the typical story refurbishing. Some don’t even realize they paint their perception of things in a way that presents the situation inaccurately.

    [–] UPDATE For post on situation where sister got 25k car for Christmas while I got a phone case Jitenon 24 points ago in AmItheAsshole

    You’re a nice son for being so forgiving towards such garbage parents. Doesn’t matter that they gave you 10K, they still suck ass... just wanted to say I hope nothing but good things come your way, compadre

    [–] [serious] What’s the worst way you’ve seen someone f*ck up their life? Jitenon 5 points ago in AskReddit

    This reminded me of someone from my university. He was in his last bit of residency, when they found out he'd been forging the doctor he was shadowing's signature. He was instantly kicked out of the program, and went back to university to get a 4 year bachelor of science. He almost finished that, but on the day of final exams for the last semester of his degree, he was taken away by cops.

    Turns out he had been stalking another girl in his degree program, and had broken into her house and stolen her laptop. It had a location app, which brought them to his place. He kept making up all sorts of dumb excuses like, it was actually his, then how she'd let him use it, even though there were messages of him constantly saying what a nice computer it was.

    I don't know anyone else who has purposely double fucked their life like that.

    [–] I’m not sure if my (21f) boyfriend (30m) of only 1 month knows my age, as he hasn’t ever asked me. He has mentioned he thinks big age gaps in relationships are gross. Should I tell him or wait until he asks me? Jitenon 68 points ago in relationships

    I haven’t visibly cringed this hard at a comment in a long time. Most people have been working the same way you have - I worked full time in HS from 15 years old so I could buy a car without a loan. Lots of my friends did too.

    Not being a “pArTy GiRl” doesn’t make you more mature either. It’s honestly immature to knock other people’s lifestyles to make yourself look better.

    Op, you’re not a speshul 21 year old gIrL, tell the guy so he can move on with his life FFS

    [–] Legit what the fuck? Jitenon 2 points ago in Cringetopia

    I am an angry person

    [–] AITA for legally suspending my daughter's license? Jitenon 237 points ago * (lasted edited 10 days ago) in AmItheAsshole

    For real, all these people going “how will she transport herself, you’re rUiNiNg her life” are spoiled and/or deluded af. I didn’t get a vehicle until I was 19, so until then I just walked everywhere. I also live in one of the coldest cities in my country. It’s completely doable

    edit: quit replying to me with “eVeRyThInG is hours away from meeee”. If so, then get a bike. If you are unable to ride a bike, you are probably unfit to drive as well.

    And I don’t want to hear “we have wInTeR hereeee” over and over from everyone. It is supposed to get up to -65C until the end of the month where I live, guess what? It’s happened before, and I still walked in the past. I choose to walk to school because parking is hell. Dress appropriately and shut up.

    [–] Like the Chef Boyardee can Jitenon 29 points ago in cringepics

    A time capsule never meant to be opened.

    [–] stop gloryfying this piece of shit Jitenon 24 points ago in trashy

    This sums up the majority of devout religious people I have had the displeasure of encountering.