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    [–] Want to expand Restraint play... Princess_Trash_Panda 2 points ago in BDSMcommunity

    Maybe check out a shibari class if she's primarily into the bondage/restraint aspect of play. It gives you a lot of freedom and room to improvise once you've got the basics down :)

    [–] Is there a name for my kink? Princess_Trash_Panda 11 points ago in BDSMcommunity

    Consensual non consent? Maybe DD/lg with a CNC component?

    [–] Dino jumper Princess_Trash_Panda 3 points ago in littlespace

    In the UK, they call sweaters jumpers 😊

    [–] So...I’m older (50F)...and married, want to explore the community.... Princess_Trash_Panda 2 points ago in BDSMcommunity

    Make an account on FetLife.com. It's free, and will help you find kink-oriented events near you. Good luck! :)

    [–] Rant: I'm your doctor, please stop. Princess_Trash_Panda 307 points ago in TwoXChromosomes

    Hey OP, I'm sorry that this happened to you so often. To other commenters: she's just here to vent, not to ask for advice. I'm sure she's thought of all of these suggestions before.

    [–] Daddy broke up with me...again Princess_Trash_Panda 11 points ago in littlespace

    You're not pathetic. He's broken up with you five times. No wonder you feel scared and insecure. Relationships are supposed to make you feel safer, stronger, more stable. It sounds like he hasn't given you any of those things. Plus DDLG takes a huge amount of trust and vulnerability, and it sounds like he has definitely taken advantage of that. The other commenter is right: you can do better. It feels scary and hard right now, but spend some time being good to yourself. Take a warm bath/shower, get yourself your favorite snacks, focus on your own well-being. You've got this πŸ’•

    [–] Women who farm, is it worth it? How did you learn? Do you own land? Princess_Trash_Panda 3 points ago in AskWomen

    I'm a contract hydroponic farmer; I don't own the facility, just do the growing. Before this, I did organic small scale agriculture for three years. I'm first generation; no one else in my family has growing experience beyond backyard gardening and I grew up in the burbs. I initially got into it through the Willing Workers On Organic Farms program, which was really fun and taught me almost everything I know. After that I worked as an apprentice for a season to round out my experience. I learn new things all the time, get paid to be out in nature, stay fit without ever hitting a gym, and every day is different, so that's cool. But there's so much pressure, things are constantly going wrong, if I fail then the company goes down, the pay is shit, my body is all kinds of messed up, and the job security is shaky at best. Before entering hydroponics, I would have to work 8 hour shifts in freezing temps, rain, snow, blazing hot weather, etc. There are no days off. I'm going back to school so I can get a job that won't leave me broke and decrepit.

    [–] You don’t know what that word means.... do you? Princess_Trash_Panda 9 points ago in TwoXChromosomes

    Well before you deleted it, I saw a comment of yours that literally said, "black women are the worst, aren't they?". You're a shameless troll and deserve every bit of vitriol you've been served. I see that you've deleted all of your more inflammatory comments and can only surmise that you've done so to maintain the illusion of being a nice guy to others who want to check your comment history. Fuck off with your pathetic, transparent, woe-is-me women-hating ass. I took the bait the first time, but the other commenter is right; you're not worth the energy. Bye.

    [–] You don’t know what that word means.... do you? Princess_Trash_Panda 5 points ago in TwoXChromosomes

    Dude I just looked at your post history; why are you wasting your energy all over this thread getting offended on behalf of people you've never met? πŸ€” GTFO with your apologist, clueless, sexist bullshit.

    [–] Daddy dom here. Does anybody know where I can find this outfit? My babygirl is obsessed Princess_Trash_Panda 3 points ago in littlespace

    I would try Etsy or Amazon; search for terms including "kawaii", "antler floral headband", "blue lake collar BDSM", "baby blue striped knee socks", "baby blue deer sweater", etc. Here's a link to some Etsy results for similar antler flower crowns: https://www.etsy.com/search?q=antler%20flower%20crown%20blue And a link to similar socks: https://www.partycity.com/light-blue-stripe-athletic-knee-high-socks-756352.html?gclid=Cj0KCQiA7briBRD7ARIsABhX8aBvYkXgu4dsxY2zslqerntUfMRCmN3Zl3Y7Jj3z2oFnNg775kXBjbkaAsdUEALw_wcB&gclsrc=aw.ds&extcmp=pla%7CGoogle

    Etsy in particular will be your friend in this search. Good luck!

    [–] Women on the pill have had unnecessary 'periods' for 60 years because it's male inventor wanted to please the pope. Princess_Trash_Panda 9 points ago in Feminism

    I don't believe so (I know women who do this with no adverse side effects), but check with your doctor/do your research first to be sure it's the right decision for you.

    [–] This is what kindness looks like - my wife and I are in rough shape thanks to the government shutdown, but after mentioning it in a comment thread this happened. So thank you, anonymous Redditors. You’ve given us fewer things to be worried about! (Story in comments) Princess_Trash_Panda 4 points ago in pics

    I understand that kind of frustration; when you're doing everything right but circumstances out of your control come along and knock down all your hard work. My food bank gig is mostly volunteer work (read: unpaid) and I make most of my money landscaping. However, I injured one of my arms and have been out of work for over a month now. It's so frustrating watching all of my savings just slip away. This is turning into a bit of a rant, but my point is that I feel your struggle. It's hard right now, but just know that it'll pass, and that there are a whole bunch of internet strangers rooting for you. Hang in there, friend.

    [–] This is what kindness looks like - my wife and I are in rough shape thanks to the government shutdown, but after mentioning it in a comment thread this happened. So thank you, anonymous Redditors. You’ve given us fewer things to be worried about! (Story in comments) Princess_Trash_Panda 8 points ago in pics

    Hey, sorry to hear how awful the shutdown is for your family. I work at a food bank, and they are meant for people going through temporary struggles like this. I know it can seem like food banks are only meant for homeless people, but they really are meant to help everyone, including families going through tough times like this. You don't have to choose between rent and food. PM me if you'd like help finding one in your area; sending my best wishes to you and your family.

    [–] Data is clear: States with lowest-performing schools do the most paddling Princess_Trash_Panda 9 points ago in politics

    It hasn't. My ex was forced to crawl on hands and knees for hours up and down concrete stairs when he got "smoked" for mouthing off to his superior officer. The officer would intermittently sit on his back while he was crawling. He has permanent nerve damage and a near-total lack of mobility in both of his hands and wrists and one shoulder, and the officer was never even reprimanded. This was four years ago. Another friend (Marine) was forced to repeatedly participate in beating the ever loving shit out of guys in her platoon who got out of line. Their officer created a culture where he would instruct the platoon to carry out his version of "justice" when he wasn't around so he could have plausible deniability. Six years ago. It's a damn shame.

    [–] A small request for a sick little. Princess_Trash_Panda 5 points ago in littlespace

    Get well soon, u/babybijouu!!! Being sick is scary... but be brave, you've got this!! Virtual treats for youuu ~ πŸ“πŸ©πŸ°πŸ«πŸ¬πŸ­πŸ’•

    [–] What a nice brother Princess_Trash_Panda 15 points ago in wholesomememes

    How is this wholesome? It just seems mean :(

    [–] Research shows that men leaving their wives who have been diagnosed with cancer is far more common than women leaving their husbands who have been diagnosed with cancer. Princess_Trash_Panda 4 points ago in TwoXChromosomes

    What a cogent and well thought out counterargument. A totally reasonable escalation of tone. You sure showed me, golly gosh!

    Seriously though, if you come into a feminist thread spouting apologist nonsense like that, my response is about the mildest you can expect. No part of it was personal; rather, it was meant to both correct some of your misconceptions (we're all learning; there's no shame in that) and to show you how you yourself had turned around much of what the original commenter stated in order to make your own unfounded claims. I suggest a little introspection on your part. Good day.

    [–] Research shows that men leaving their wives who have been diagnosed with cancer is far more common than women leaving their husbands who have been diagnosed with cancer. Princess_Trash_Panda 15 points ago in TwoXChromosomes

    1. No. Men are not "genetically made" to leave when things get tough. Caring for an ill partner requires a lot of emotional labor, caretaking, and house work; all things which the average man in today's society has not been socialized to do. So when all of those things are thrust all at once on some men when their partner is suddenly incapacitated, they panic and leave.

    2. No one called all men shit. This is a scientific study proving that more men leave their ill wives than women leave their ill husbands. The commenter was simply pointing out that there are a lot of men in this thread derailing the study to protest that not all men would do such a thing, when in reality no one is making that claim. It's a red herring.

    3. No one is saying that men are irredeemable. The action to be taken is to teach young boys that showing their emotions and taking care of work around the house are not shameful things, but things which will make them a more self-sufficient person and a better partner in the long run.