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    [–] It’s 20x easier to tell if someone likes you when you don’t like them back. Stopman 1 points ago * (lasted edited 17 hours ago) in Showerthoughts

    Dude, relax. I don't know why you're going straight to insulting me as if I was rude to you. Or even talking to you.

    I was never talking about rescheduling in either of my comments. I literally never mentioned it to begin with, and then I made it clear in my second comment that it wasn't my original point.

    But if we are going to talk about rescheduling, so be it. The author of the article says that a reasonable sort of thing to reschedule around is "a funeral". Otherwise, he literally writes in bold:

    If a woman is interested in you, she will drop her other plans to be available to go out with you.

    The author sets the bar ridiculously high to for someone to reschedule. I personally wouldn't drop everything short of a funeral merely for a first date. By his standards, that automatically implies that I'm not interested. Which is a fucking absurd way to look at someone's love life. So, like I said the first time, this clearly isn't one-size-fits-all, and might not useful on a general basis.

    [–] It’s 20x easier to tell if someone likes you when you don’t like them back. Stopman 4 points ago in Showerthoughts

    It literally says, in bold:

    But if a woman is interested in you, she will drop her other plans to be available to go out with you.

    He then uses a funeral is a good example of a legit reason to reschedule. Those kinds of standards are ridiculous.

    [–] IAmA Celebrity Fitness Trainer who went from homeless to getting JK Simmons and Zac Efron jacked! My name is Aaron Williamson. AMA! Stopman 1 points ago in IAmA

    Considering your resume, how much do you charge at this point? Seems like people would be willing to pay a lot when they can literally see your results in movies.

    [–] It’s 20x easier to tell if someone likes you when you don’t like them back. Stopman 2 points ago in Showerthoughts

    I mean that's not really what I was referring to. I probably won't cancel my plans for a first date, and I wouldn't expect others to either. At best, it depends on the circumstances. Relationships are extremely situational, and while this rule may work sometimes, it is simply too general to use on a regular basis.

    [–] It’s 20x easier to tell if someone likes you when you don’t like them back. Stopman 2 points ago in Showerthoughts

    My point was that the article says if a girl won't cancel her plans for a first date, then she's not interested. And I think that kind of expectation is really off base.

    [–] It’s 20x easier to tell if someone likes you when you don’t like them back. Stopman 5 points ago in Showerthoughts

    What?? I've not only had that said to me, but I've been the one saying it. And that is not at all what it means. Again, it's really not a one-size-fits-all situation, but if someone really isn't interested they won't ask to reschedule.

    [–] It’s 20x easier to tell if someone likes you when you don’t like them back. Stopman 16 points ago in Showerthoughts

    Er, I don’t know. That’s a bit too one-size-fits-all. A girl shouldn’t necessarily have to cancel all her plans for a first date. Even if she likes the guy.

    [–] If you got a $100,000 gift card that you could only use at one store, which store would it be and why? Stopman 2 points ago in AskReddit

    I mean, Whole Foods? I'll definitely spend more than $100,000 on groceries in my life. Sounds like a good investment. And that way I'll basically have an extra $100,000 that I can spend anywhere.

    [–] I’m not proud of who I was. Stopman 1 points ago in blunderyears

    My only critique, take it or leave it, is that your mustache shape seems a little strange. That might just be me though, idk.

    [–] Dog saves owner from being trapped outside Stopman 1559 points ago * (lasted edited 4 days ago) in MadeMeSmile

    “WELCOME, FRIENDS! COME IN! COME IN! YES, OF COURSE, FETCH THE TV! WONDERFUL! LET ME SHOW YOU AROUND!”

    [–] Amazing artist draws ultra-realistic objects Stopman 5 points ago in BeAmazed

    A. what does that even mean

    B. do you live in North America, where it is currently 3 PM

    [–] Amazing artist draws ultra-realistic objects Stopman 1 points ago in BeAmazed

    I saw him draw that fucking hotdog and it still got me

    [–] Question on back muscles Stopman 1 points ago in Fitness

    What’s stopping me is that I’ve already gotten a decent start on most everything else, so my other muscles automatically take over when I try to work my back. When I do lat pull downs, for example, I can tell it’s 90% biceps doing the work.

    I’m looking for intermediate exercises so that I can isolate my back without stronger muscles taking over.

    [–] Question on back muscles Stopman 1 points ago in Fitness

    Not really, just trying to fill it out. Starting to get a weird look with bigger legs and upper body but not a whole lot in the middle.

    [–] Petite body frame- not sure what to do? Stopman -1 points ago * (lasted edited 7 days ago) in Fitness

    I didn’t think you were, dude. I wasn’t even trying to defend the post.

    Didn’t mean to make a big deal out of it, just seemed unnecessarily mean to me. That’s all.