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    [–] Wibta for asking coworker to stop joking about her multiple bereavements? TunaMustard 1 points ago in AmItheAsshole

    Another time, she was making everyone coffee (I admit she usually ends up being the one to do this as no-one else makes it as nicely)

    This is how I know YTA, and lazy. Unless she's over there brewing french presses and pour overs. Like you can't figure out a typical office drip machine? Please.

    [–] AITA for not liking the car my parents bought for me? TunaMustard 1 points ago in AmItheAsshole

    On most campuses a car is helpful but not a necessity. On many, it's a straight up luxury as everything is in walking distance or is accessible by public transportation.

    [–] AITA for making my husband eat vegetables TunaMustard 3 points ago in AmItheAsshole

    INFO: is your husband healthy overall? Is his diet actually detrimental to his health?

    [–] The Mom Group DNA Test TunaMustard 15 points ago in ShitMomGroupsSay

    Ooooh that could be!

    [–] WIBTA for ending a ten year friendship over fleas? TunaMustard 2 points ago in AmItheAsshole

    YTA if you end a decade long friendship over this. N T A for being mad about it though.

    [–] AITA for wanting to use my family cot with my newborn? TunaMustard 1 points ago in AmItheAsshole

    NAH, maybe you can use your grandpa's cot and also buy a new one? Babies don't always sleep in one place, especially as newborns.

    Or maybe the cot could by kept at your parents and used when you visit them?

    Both of your wishes are reasonable, and there's no reason you can't find some sort of compromise.

    [–] AITA for being annoyed by my boyfriend scratching all the time? TunaMustard 3 points ago in AmItheAsshole

    He's said he's tried everything from pills, numbing ointments, and skin allergy tests but nothing has ever stopped him from scratching

    INFO: how long ago? Was this with a dermatologist? Did he get second or third opinions?

    [–] AITA when i react sarcastically to my flatmate's nags TunaMustard 2 points ago in AmItheAsshole

    Perhaps a more formal shared cleaning regime would benefit us both?


    NAH or maybe E S H up till you do that.

    [–] The Mom Group DNA Test TunaMustard 84 points ago in ShitMomGroupsSay

    And? That's infinitely less trashy than this Facebook post.

    [–] Billionaire David Koch dies at age 79 TunaMustard 3 points ago in news

    I'm not rich at all. I have multiple doormen in our building

    I mean, that sounds at least a teensy little bit rich?

    [–] IsItBullshit: most over the counter meds are placebos. TunaMustard 4 points ago in IsItBullshit

    The active ingredient it's pseudoephedrine, which is just one of the ingredients used to make meth.

    [–] What Linux distro should I learn linux with? TunaMustard 3 points ago in ITCareerQuestions

    CentOS/Red Hat is what you'll find in server rooms all over the place.

    Avoid stuff like Arch or LFS. That's great to tinker with, but it doesn't apply as well to corporate IT.

    Debian, SuSE, and Ubuntu are runner ups.

    Something like slax or puppy Linux can get your feet wet real quick.

    [–] Marc Maron’s Issues With Marvel Movies TunaMustard 3 points ago in MarcMaron

    There should have been a break after end game.

    [–] Marc Maron’s Issues With Marvel Movies TunaMustard 2 points ago in MarcMaron

    If you include the TV shows and Netflix, the MCU takes a much larger time investment.

    [–] The momentum/elation from the debt snowball is real. TunaMustard 2 points ago in DaveRamsey

    Yep! It's hard to get excited just lowering the balance on your billing statement, but eliminating a bill is all kinds of energizing.

    [–] AITA for telling my wife and in-laws to fuck off after they told me to stop cuddling my daughter? TunaMustard 167 points ago in AmItheAsshole

    Exactly. There's a lot more nuance to this. OP shouldn't have jumped straight to "fuck off" and should have asked "why do you think that?"

    I don't think OP's cuddling is sexual, but I do think that it might be inappropriate if it's interfering with her developing into an emotionally healthy adult.

    It depends on the frequency, length, and type of cuddling.

    [–] TIL that the Hatian Revolution was "the only slave uprising that led to the founding of a state which was both free from slavery, and ruled by non-whites and former captives." TunaMustard 4 points ago in todayilearned

    and were economically invaded by the US

    You're not making this sound as bad as it was. It wasn't some lopsided trade policy...the US literally invaded Haiti, to little opposition, and confiscated Haiti's physical gold reserves and shipped them to the US.

    [–] 1950s economy class looked more like business class does now. TunaMustard 2 points ago in OldSchoolCool

    Yep, I'll fly Allegiant but not Spirit. The in-flight credit card sales pitch on every flight was the final straw for me.