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    [–] WOMEN of reddit, what NSFW female lifestyle hack can you share? babyboybelcher18 133 points ago in AskReddit

    Furthermore, you can hide other drugs inside the lining of your underwear, you know that double layer in the crotch area. This is great for concerts/music festivals. Consume said drugs in bathroom.

    [–] Question about the price ranges babyboybelcher18 2 points ago in menstrualcups

    Thanks for your response!

    So I can understand more clearly, what would make a brand a knockoff vs a respected brand? Would a cheaper cup not perform as well?

    [–] I sometimes have a strong desire for non-specific instant gratification babyboybelcher18 5 points ago in Meditation

    Yes that sounds like a good idea.

    Another way to look at it is that you may be generally feeling adrift lately and may have gotten used to those emotions/could manage them. But then after your friends ignored you at lunch, those adrift feelings came back to life and sort of got reinforced or maybe became more powerful (almost like saying see I told you you weren't good enough) causing your need to numb till you can get used to them again. Just a thought not sure if that's the case.

    [–] I sometimes have a strong desire for non-specific instant gratification babyboybelcher18 25 points ago in Meditation

    Do you feel like it may be a desire to numb? Sometimes I have emotions that I haven't obtained full self-awareness of yet. They are probably rooted in the general feeling of being unloveable. I then start looking for instant gratification to numb those emotions or "fill the hole".

    There is usually a trigger that causes these emotions and the subsequent need to numb. This trigger is very subtle maybe even unnoticeable because of my lack of self awareness.

    [–] Marilyn Monroe's grave is pink from all the lipstick of the woman who kiss it. babyboybelcher18 -2 points ago * (lasted edited a month ago) in mildlyinteresting

    Reminds me of the Blarney Stone in Ireland

    Edit: because it has also turned pink from ladies kissing it

    [–] [Serious] What's the reason you keep pushing along? babyboybelcher18 1 points ago in AskReddit

    It's ingrained, almost robotic. I'm not doing it on purpose.

    [–] What is something you wished you weren't judged about? babyboybelcher18 2 points ago in AskReddit

    I can be very rational sometimes and may make a comment that makes more emotional people assume I'm heartless. This type of judgement has made me very conscious about contributing to conversations.

    [–] What have you observed about people thanks to your job? babyboybelcher18 2 points ago in AskReddit

    The extent to which fear is used by the government to control. I work with a lot of former federal agents and they all have this fall in line don't question authority mentality. It's amazing to observe especially since most of these guys have traveled all over the world and/or handled serious criminals. You'd think they would step outside of the box more.

    [–] Hello, Reddit! What is your go to tip on getting motivated for a job hunt? babyboybelcher18 1 points ago in AskReddit

    I had a friend who was also unemployed and we supported each other through the process, updating each other on interviews and application statuses. If we were in the same town, we would sit together and apply for jobs/hang out. It was very helpful.

    [–] If you don't meditate for a "goal", then why do you meditate? babyboybelcher18 3 points ago in Meditation

    I don't think it is more worthy or more dignified. It's just that I have found this process to be effective for me. When I focus on self acceptance, it leads to tolerance, maturity, etc. I have found that when my thought is "I must control my emotions and not get angry at things or I must accept people for who they are," I don't actually achieve any of these things. Because the root of the problem is a lack of self acceptance and self love.

    If focusing on emotional control and increasing tolerance works for you, then you should def do it. Whatever works for you is best. Nothing is better or worse.

    [–] Dear Reddit - which is that one behavior of your boss that makes you frustrated? babyboybelcher18 1 points ago in AskReddit

    His military/law enforcement mentality of falling in line and accepting everything without any questions. Our company manufactures food products.

    [–] If you don't meditate for a "goal", then why do you meditate? babyboybelcher18 3 points ago in Meditation

    I meditate to take a break from the daily grind, sort through my emotions and see it as a way of taking care of myself. I don't have any expectations from the sessions, sometimes meditation brings my anxiety to the surface.

    My only goal in meditation is getting to know my inner self and accepting it without judgement. When people "frown" upon using meditation to improve yourself, I believe they are encouraging you to accept yourself for who you are at this moment. The increased emotional control, etc. is more of an after effect of self acceptance. When it becomes the main goal, then you are indirectly telling yourself that you are not good enough yet.

    [–] What almost instantly makes you lose your appetite? babyboybelcher18 1 points ago in AskReddit

    All those wacky sex stories on Reddit (i.e. jolly rancher, girl who pulled out an old condom from her vagina)

    [–] Reddit what was or are your most useful student hacks? babyboybelcher18 2 points ago in AskReddit

    When writing essays, write what your teacher wants to hear. I have discovered (throughout high school and college) that there was always a "right" answer for essays. I am a proponent of individual creativity and whatnot but such is life.