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    [–] How would you handle being called the wrong name during sex? dovahkiissmepls 2 points ago in AskMen

    I just wanted to update on the post since it kept going on when the situation had died out, is all. It has no benefit to me as I’m obviously still going to get negative comments on this post because of its nature. It’s perfectly okay because of the anonymity of this app, I just wanted to update those who cared about the outcome of it all :)

    [–] How would you handle being called the wrong name during sex? dovahkiissmepls 2 points ago in AskMen

    Honestly I think it would have happened to anyone, but my history of that likely made it seem less of a big deal to him as well, especially since I laughed. I understand where youre coming from completely, and thank you for your kind wishes x

    [–] How would you handle being called the wrong name during sex? dovahkiissmepls 1 points ago in AskMen

    I don’t at all, all that matters is how this particular guy responds, it doesn’t matter what I or anyone one else thinks

    [–] How would you handle being called the wrong name during sex? dovahkiissmepls 0 points ago in AskMen

    Exactly, I expected better from the Reddit community. If I wanted this response I would have gone to 4Chan haha

    [–] How would you handle being called the wrong name during sex? dovahkiissmepls 0 points ago in AskMen

    Obviously none of you are in this scenario, so obviously none of you truly know me or the man I am involved with. You honestly sound like someone that’s very angry and hasn’t been involved with anyone. Ever or for a long time. You sound incredibly hurt, and want to be part of the crowd chanting horrible things to seek some sort of group validation. I hope things get better for you.

    [–] How would you handle being called the wrong name during sex? dovahkiissmepls -1 points ago in AskMen

    Confusing a name? That sounds very similar to that of my lover? That has absolutely no hidden meaning behind it?

    [–] How would you handle being called the wrong name during sex? dovahkiissmepls 1 points ago in AskMen

    Thing is he didn’t think it was a big deal at all because I’m the moment I’d casually mentioned that I confuse their names often and laughed it off, he did too in that moment and we went back at it

    [–] How would you handle being called the wrong name during sex? dovahkiissmepls 1 points ago in AskMen

    Thank you for this insight, though it wasn’t an ex it was just a horrible habit I had of confusing the two names :)

    [–] How would you handle being called the wrong name during sex? dovahkiissmepls 2 points ago in AskMen

    I haven’t been cheating, they just have very similar names and my stupid brain confused them at the worst of times. We have since discussed and are okay with each other :)

    [–] How would you handle being called the wrong name during sex? dovahkiissmepls 1 points ago in AskMen

    Check the update :) thank you for your advice though, I really appreciate it!

    [–] How would you handle being called the wrong name during sex? dovahkiissmepls 2 points ago in AskMen

    How little I care? I literally made a post just so I would have a little more insight before I approached him to talk about it again since it was sitting on my chest. Also, the comment section became flooded with rudeness that held absolutely no helpful backbone to it, including your comment.

    [–] How would you handle being called the wrong name during sex? dovahkiissmepls 0 points ago in AskMen

    Thank you, I definitely will be having a talk with him soon (probably after he gets back from work) about this just so everything is out in the open and we can move past it.

    [–] How would you handle being called the wrong name during sex? dovahkiissmepls -2 points ago in AskMen

    Thank you for this comment, I actually screenshot it just so I don’t lose it in this sea of comments 😅 this is so extremely helpful, and I appreciate it so much. I am going to use this as I don’t want too much time to go by and for him to dwell on any negative feelings. Thank you so much for this

    [–] How would you handle being called the wrong name during sex? dovahkiissmepls -3 points ago in AskMen

    Not my ex, only a friend that has a very similar name to him, a friend that doesn’t have a very deep or meaningful friendship to me at all

    [–] How would you handle being called the wrong name during sex? dovahkiissmepls 0 points ago in AskMen

    Thank you for this reassurance, after posting this I had an intense fear that he would abandon the relationship entirely

    [–] How would you handle being called the wrong name during sex? dovahkiissmepls 14 points ago in AskMen

    No no I don’t have doubts at all, thank you for this. I do want to bring it up because it’s sitting on my mind, however I don’t want to make it a big deal when I didn’t in the moment, we laughed it off, he did as well, and went back into it. It only hit me afterwards because I realized how it must have come across, and that’s why I feel as terrible as I do

    [–] How would you handle being called the wrong name during sex? dovahkiissmepls -4 points ago in AskMen

    Did you really come onto this post just for that? Did you really have to comment that? Did it make you feel good to say that to someone who is genuinely asking for help because she’s in a tough spot? If so, at least some good came out of it. Refrain from contributing if you have nothing of substance to say.

    [–] How would you handle being called the wrong name during sex? dovahkiissmepls -2 points ago in AskMen

    You’re*

    It was an honest mistake, no one is perfect. I have had issues like this in the past where I confuse names.

    [–] How would you handle being called the wrong name during sex? dovahkiissmepls 7 points ago in AskMen

    Honestly at this point I know where exactly this came from, and I know that I don’t have any subconscious feelings for this other person. I mix up names all the time, even with these two guys because their names are similar and my brain wasn’t functioning right. All I’m looking for is ways to make it up to him, because I don’t want to lose him over something that has literally no hidden meaning to it, that is all. I hope that doesn’t come across as rude but I already know that it was a mistake, hence me posting this asking for advice.

    [–] How would you handle being called the wrong name during sex? dovahkiissmepls -4 points ago in AskMen

    Thank you for this, and I definitely will. Some redditors were suggesting I show him this question but I feel like the comment section is a bit toxic and he will see how stressed I was over this

    [–] How would you handle being called the wrong name during sex? dovahkiissmepls -1 points ago in AskMen

    No reason at all, we just weren’t particularly close and neither of us cared enough to maintain a steady friendship. There is no bad blood or anything at all, that’s just how it is sometimes