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    [–] How do I cope with my racism? good-loser 3 points ago in socialjustice101

    I don't believe you're permanently gone at all. When I was even younger than you are, I used to browse 4chan, thought it was fine to say slurs, hated some races for no real reason. Now I'm a completely different person and wouldn't dream of doing it.

    Everyone is capable of change and learning from their mistakes, just keep trying because every new day is an imporvement, heck if you want help you can feel free to PM me.

    [–] I painted Rosa for portrait practice! good-loser 1 points ago in brooklynninenine

    I actually got offered a place on a college art course yesterday! ( Which sounds unimpressive, since it's UK college, but I'm gonna need it if I want to get to university.) I'm planning to become an illustrator :)

    [–] I painted Rosa for portrait practice! good-loser 2 points ago in brooklynninenine

    I think I'm not so bad at drawing hands but when it comes to painting them I get super nervous about it. They're so easy to mess up!

    I originally wasn't going to, but now I'm considering it :)

    [–] I painted Rosa for portrait practice! good-loser 2 points ago in brooklynninenine

    Ohh, I don't have an Instagram but I've been thinking about making one, maybe this is a jump start...

    [–] I painted Rosa for portrait practice! good-loser 2 points ago in brooklynninenine

    Clip Studio Paint, it goes on sale often so it's not a poor investment imo :)

    [–] I painted Rosa for portrait practice! good-loser 1 points ago in brooklynninenine

    Yes, it was drawn (not traced)! Some progress pics here

    I strongly believe that you improve faster if you don't trace or even colour drop your colours. As a result I think I've really developed my eye for detail.

    [–] I painted Rosa for portrait practice! good-loser 1 points ago in brooklynninenine

    Wow, this received far much more attention than I ever thought it would (I really posted it for fun in case a few people liked it but I guess I underestimated that...)

    I Don't think I can reply to everyone but: yes the hands are small/the head is big! I always get stuck with proportioning the head right, and while I'm not so bad drawing hands for some reason painting them makes me super nervous. I think those two problems combined lol.

    I wasn't planning on doing more but if I need models the B99 cast is always there!

    [–] If someone comes out to you as a transman or transwoman, isn't it wrong to respond that you're pansexual? good-loser 2 points ago in socialjustice101

    No problem! Of course, a lot of trans people i know only date other trans people. I'm lucky enough to have found partners, but before then the loneliness affected me a lot.

    [–] How do I cope with my racism? good-loser 1 points ago in socialjustice101

    I think everyone's given good advice already, I just want to say knowing you're biased and working to better yourself is an incredible first step most people haven't even reached yet. It's a journey everyone goes through - even people of colour have to unlearn racism towards other races. Good luck :)!

    [–] If someone comes out to you as a transman or transwoman, isn't it wrong to respond that you're pansexual? good-loser 9 points ago in socialjustice101

    Yes, it is a faux pas for the reasons you mentioned. It might even be wrong to call yourself bisexual (depending on your own gender & theirs of course)

    However it's good to know you can use words other than pansexual when referring to non-binary genders! For eg. many bisexuals understand the word bisexual to mean "attracted to own gender, and attracted to other genders" which includes non-binary.

    [–] Aspergers and Intrusive Thoughts? good-loser 6 points ago in aspergers

    I used to suffer from intrusive thoughts when my mental illness was worse. However I have reason to suspect I'm psychotic/on the psychotic spectrum su it's probably only related to ASD in the way mistreatment from having ASD made me feel worse.

    Do you experience other psychotic symptoms such as "scrambled" thinking, incoherence (maybe even when talking to your friends who usually understand you like fellow ppl with Aspergers), very strong odd beliefs/thoughts that aren't necessarily intrusive you just believe them? I think intrusive thoughts can be a feature of psychotic depression (also non-psychotic anyway if you have no other symptoms)

    OCD can also present without seemingly compulsive behaviour. Also I'm not a psychologist just talking from my own experiences of having this stuff, I think talking to your doc again is important. Good luck and stay safe friend!

    [–] I don't want to talk to anyone. good-loser 2 points ago in aspergers

    I used to feel this so desperately that I'd wish I had no tongue or was mute just so people wouldn't expect me to speak! That was when I was much more depressed of course but I really understand how you feel.

    [–] [Discussion] Anyone in UK / Europe want to buy from Stratia so we can combine shipping costs? good-loser 2 points ago * (lasted edited 5 months ago) in AsianBeauty

    I'm interested in this! I don't need it by any date so I'm happy to go for it whenever you order.

    [–] [Discussion] Best/worst ceramide products? good-loser 2 points ago in AsianBeauty

    Which Cezanne product was it? Their toner? ^

    [–] How many hours between your night and morning routines? [discussion] good-loser 2 points ago in AsianBeauty

    I do my AM routine before I leave, starting around 7, and at the moment I usually do my PM when I get home around 5 or 6. That seems early, but I used to do it before I went to bed at 11:30. What would usually end up happening is I'd be too tired by then and think to myself "it's okay if I skip a day" and just go to sleep.

    Bumping it up to 6 has helped me get it done, I feel. The thought of cleaning my face soon gives me something to look forward to every evening. So that's about 11 hours between my AM and PM, and 13 hours overnight. When I add a sleeping pack to my routine I'll probably apply it before bed again (or try to lol)

    [–] Rant, Raves, and Mini Reviews good-loser 3 points ago in AsianBeauty

    Tiny rant, but I'm worried Benton Snail Bee High Content Essence broke me out when I was so excited to use it too :( but I drank last night, so maybe it was alcohol? But it wasn't a lot, I didn't really wake up with dehydrated skin so I don't know... I introduced it about a week ago but just woke up today with a couple of tiny little pimples. My skin is really resilient too so I'm so surprised this happened.

    I'll not use it for a couple of days, see what happens to my skin, and decide then.