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    [–] What stereotype about your race/gender/religion/etc do you want to clear once and for all? grandmasamillenial69 1 points ago in AskMen

    Because boys have to be careful about spilling seed. Exposure to the outside world will surely cause this to happen. Some ultra orthodox institutions are proud that the boys cant speak english. Institutions like Footsteps helps people learn english when they leave their community. However, arent they afraid the girls will find better men to marry when theyre working like donkeys and the boys hafe their feet up all day? I guess not. A lot of it doesnt make sense to me. Apparently many of the girls are on drugs too and there’s special kosher rehab centers for them but from what I hear it’s worse with the boys.

    [–] What stereotype about your race/gender/religion/etc do you want to clear once and for all? grandmasamillenial69 1 points ago in AskMen

    Most ultra orthodox Jews are actually not ambitious at all these days. (The community has moved more religiously to the right, meaning in the future most Jews will be ultra orthodox since they have 6-15 children). Many of them work at B&H on 9th ave and 34th street to pay for their washington heights mice and roach infested apartments. So your Jewish doctors, bankers, lawyers will now be your asian, African, and latino doctors, bankers, and lawyers. Hell, most of them dont even graduate from high school anymore. However, this is MOSTLY true for jewish MALES. The girls are normal and very bright and are going to law school and medical school.

    There’s actually a huge drug problem with chassidim in crown heights, boro park, and williamsburg in brooklyn. Ive had many Jewish boys express their drug issues with me on first dates (they’re off the derech/religious path which means screw morals, let’s put everything bad into my body and have sex with anything that has a vagina).

    Many of the Jews in media are not even Jewish anymore, they just have their father’s last name. And they hate zionism and the the state of israel.

    But wait, there’s more!!

    The yeshiva system is in fact a money grubbing institution. So this is how it goes. Your rich less religious parents sent you a fancy yeshiva from k-12, sent you to seminary/yeshiva in israel for 1 year, and now you’re brainwashed by the system now become more religious, have a low paying job, and make sure to have at least 4 children. More children=more money for the yeshivas. With tuition costing $20/child, that’s $80k per year! But wait, your husband is either learning talmud all day and/or is a social worker earning $40k, and ideally as a female you earn $60k from being a pt/ot/spl/teacher. So how do you afford your residence in Lawrence or Midwood that is walking distance to a minyan?? Your parents pay for stuff, yay! Either yeshiva, or your mortgage, perhaps. But wait there’s more! You need to always go on vacation during pesach/winter/sukkot break so your kids can have something to say when the teacher goes around the room asking the children what they did during their week off! Israel or north miami beach or disney world is preferred, obviously. But wait, we aren’t finished yet! Now that it’s summer, you have to send your kids to camp like morsha, seneca, lavi, or mesorah! Can’t look cheap and poor and have your kids go to those other crappy camps. So what’s our total?? Who cares, your parents will pay for everything!

    And this is probably why people hate jews.

    [–] I found a white hair today and I've never even had a gf, what was the moment you realized you were super behind your peers? grandmasamillenial69 1 points ago * (lasted edited 6 months ago) in AskMen

    Nah, i dont go with that attitude. It’s after they start ghosting me I feel this way. I make sure to go into it with an open mind. Everybody is supposed to be different.

    [–] I found a white hair today and I've never even had a gf, what was the moment you realized you were super behind your peers? grandmasamillenial69 1 points ago * (lasted edited 6 months ago) in AskMen

    Im extremely hard on myself. I mean, I get picked by casting agencies for tv and netflix shows so casting directors must think Im not too horrible looking where I can’t be seen on their show. But when Im with other girls I cant help but feel so inadequate compared to them.

    Yeah the girls who had babies at age 23 now have wrinkles at age 26. Having kids definitely causes wrinkles.

    May I add that Im still a virgin, Ive never seen an adult male penis in person. To make it worse, I have the sex drive of a 14 year old boy. But for religious reasons I hold off on sex. I dont know if this harmed my self esteem more than if I just had sex already. Maybe I wouldnt care about marriage if I had sex before.

    I do try to take care of myself. I have a pretty extensive skin care routine, i make sure to wear sunscreen every day. I dont eat my feelings, but when Im upset like this I lose weight. I need to work out more with my weights because I got too thin without muscle. Im also in graduate school full time. Being an emotional wreck in graduate school isnt the best state to be in.

    [–] I found a white hair today and I've never even had a gf, what was the moment you realized you were super behind your peers? grandmasamillenial69 2 points ago in AskMen

    I think there’s a union for janitors. I have a cousin who is a janitor and he has a great salary. Do you want to continue your education? Or find a trade you’re interested in? My parents always told me to find something Im interested in and find a career in that. With enough crying to professors it’s possible to still pass. I once failed a class and my professor gave me a B+ because I expressed the difficulties I was going through with the course work. It’s never too late to go back to school if youre willing to put in the time. Maybe if you take management or leadership courses you can get promoted to make a better salary. Maybe there’s certifications? There’s always a means to solve your problems career wise in my experience. There’s also certifications for fields like IT if you want to overhaul your career.

    [–] I found a white hair today and I've never even had a gf, what was the moment you realized you were super behind your peers? grandmasamillenial69 1 points ago in AskMen

    I have not received any. This is how my life goes. Oh and to add, Im still a virgin but that’s for religious regions, and most of the guys Ive gone out with are not worthy of any pp touch they were so emotionally unsexy.

    [–] I found a white hair today and I've never even had a gf, what was the moment you realized you were super behind your peers? grandmasamillenial69 1 points ago in AskMen

    I feel ya, sister. Im also smart and funny and somewhat pretty. I cant imagine what being in high school with boys would have been like for me. I went to an all girls elementary school and high school, I didnt talk to boys until I was 18, and even then I attracted the worst of the worst, they are probably incels today. However, the prettier girls knew the boys in the boys school and they hung out and they knew they always looked good. When we were 16 the pretty girls looked like they were 26 and I look like I was 9 years old with a 34 D cup size... and my family still likes to say how young I look and how now that Im 26 I finally look like Im 16 but that doesnt equal sexual attraction imo. I probably should have been taken to doctors in my teens regarding my appearance because I looked too sexually immature to be attractive. My mom attributes that to the fact that we are all late bloomers.

    [–] I found a white hair today and I've never even had a gf, what was the moment you realized you were super behind your peers? grandmasamillenial69 43 points ago in AskMen

    Im 26, female. Most of the girls from my high school class are already married with babies and Im still dating. To top that off most guys dont give me second or third dates. Theyre pretty awful too. The dating pool sucks. Damn, that’s the kind of stuff that makes me question how my life would have been different if I chose different paths. And yes, Im probably a bit more grey haired than you, op. I just cut them off at the root.

    [–] Does the FAGGA cause upwards growth besides only forwards? grandmasamillenial69 1 points ago in orthotropics

    I would be doing myofunctional therapy at the same time but my myofunctional therapist said only the tip of the tongue should rest at the first dip behind the teeth which makes me concerned.

    [–] I’m confused: If I have been swallowing incorrectly and my tongue posture has been wrong my entire life, why did I not have to get any teeth pulled and why do my wisdom teeth fit in perfectly with no impactions? grandmasamillenial69 1 points ago in orthotropics

    My parents never needed braces. My mom had a retainer for her spaces and never needed teeth pulled. She also chews gum all the time. My dad actually never grew in his wisdom teeth on his lower jaw but his teeth grew in straight. He’s also a mouth breather and a snorer and his chin doesnt recede.

    [–] I’m confused: If I have been swallowing incorrectly and my tongue posture has been wrong my entire life, why did I not have to get any teeth pulled and why do my wisdom teeth fit in perfectly with no impactions? grandmasamillenial69 1 points ago in orthotropics

    I have extremely weak masseters per my myofunctional therapist. I chewed gum a lot as a child. I stopped chewing large pieces of gum after an ent told me to stop because of my tmj when I was 18. I have full grown teeth, not tiny teeth, I guess maybe a bit larger than average. Im not sure if my face is more horizontal than average, but my chin doesn’t come too forward unfortunately and my jaw definitely slants down too much for my liking.