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    [–] Purple smoky eye! First fall look! CCW :) jfager16 1 points ago in MakeupAddiction

    Thanks!! During the summer I’m pretty much a tinted moisturizer and mascara gal, so it was fun to get Into some color today!

    [–] Purple smoky eye! First fall look! CCW :) jfager16 1 points ago in MakeupAddiction

    Please ignore my eyebrows....I am letting them go wild for a future threading sesh

    [–] Purple smoky eye! First fall look! CCW :) jfager16 1 points ago in MakeupAddiction

    Eyes MACfluid line macro violet MAC pro longwear paint pot stormy pink MAKE UP FORVER purple shadow Kat Von D ratio liner in black MAKE UP FORVER khol liner Black Drugstore mascara with name rubbed off Sorry! I’ll try to google the packaging

    Face Benefit Hoola bronzer Mac Pro longwear concealer in NC 25 L’Oréal skin beautifier BB cream in Medium Maybelline master fix setting powder

    [–] my sister on the day of her wedding in a traditional indian dress. jfager16 2 points ago in pics

    Hey, thanks so much for the detailed breakdown! Being from a western culture this is something I have never seen first hand. I’ve heard of it, but never had the opportunity to ask about it. I appreciate your response!

    [–] my sister on the day of her wedding in a traditional indian dress. jfager16 1 points ago in pics

    Is your sister happy that it was an arranged marriage? How do women view that in your country? Is it something they look forward to or dread that they cannot choose their life partner? Genuinely interested.

    She looks beautiful by the way.

    [–] Our first Lunker together jfager16 4 points ago in daddit

    Sooooo no swimming?🐊🐊🐊🐊

    [–] Our first Lunker together jfager16 43 points ago in daddit

    Where the hell do you live?!?!?!? Oh my god, how fucking cool is that, a dock just outside the door.

    [–] Jack Black gets his star in the walk of fame! jfager16 1 points ago in pics

    That he paid for. He paid for this to happen.

    [–] IAMA Certified Sex coach and Licensed Therapist specializing in relationships, lgbt and all things Kinky AMA jfager16 24 points ago in IAmA

    Well, there’s only so much you can do! She may have some issues with sex. Not saying anything is wrong with her though! It just sounds like there is a disconnect to the sexual side of herself.

    Women are so very mental when it comes to sex and our sexuality in general. Lots of mixed messages during childhood, etc. there could have been an aunt that said something when she was younger and it stuck with her. Who knows!!! I don’t know her life story.

    I hope she finds just how beautiful and amazing sec can be though! I have sexual abuse in my past and it took A LONG TIME to learn that sex is actually enjoyable. Like...it didn’t feel good. I couldn’t say aroused and intercourse always ended up painful and counting down until it was over. My husband is the only partner I’ve had that I’ve actually felt intimate with and that I’ve allowed myself to be vulnerable with. It’s completely and truly changed my sexual experience. Once my body and mind connected it became a totally different thing.

    I’m saying all this so you know all you can do is encourage her with live, patience and kindness. Women are hard sometimes! ❤️

    [–] IAMA Certified Sex coach and Licensed Therapist specializing in relationships, lgbt and all things Kinky AMA jfager16 1 points ago in IAmA

    I always feel really guilty after watching porn. I think about it and don’t think there is anything wrong with it, but when I do it after climax I feel like I did something wrong. Is that common?

    [–] IAMA Certified Sex coach and Licensed Therapist specializing in relationships, lgbt and all things Kinky AMA jfager16 68 points ago in IAmA

    Hey ! Woman here! I’m one of many ladies in the world that needs a vibrator to orgasm during intercourse. My husband can make me cum with oral, and I love it, but prefer to climax with him inside me as it goes from just clitoral to full body. That being said, you say she has never orgasmed at all? If that’s the case, I would encourage her to play by herself and see what works for her. OR have a sex session dedicated only to her. She may feel pressure to climax and that stops it because a lady’s brain can really fuck up connecting to herself physically.

    I’m no expert tho!

    [–] I love this man jfager16 2 points ago in beer

    I don’t drink beer, yet I enjoyed this. Thanks!! I’ll get some tips for getting the husband beer

    [–] This dogs face is funny and disturbing. jfager16 1 points ago in funny

    This was a screenshot from a cute animal compilation

    [–] My daughter is in her first Daddy only phase. jfager16 3 points ago in beyondthebump

    Right! I tell him, if you need to change or shower do it quick because once I put her down she is going to be on you! And it’s true, he has his after work poop and she sits outside the door yelling “DAAAAAADAAAAAA!”

    During the week it doesn’t bother me much since I get the days with her, but the past few weekends she doesn’t want me to hold her or sit with me, just papa.

    [–] My daughter is in her first Daddy only phase. jfager16 1 points ago in beyondthebump

    This is true! Because of the fact that it’s 90% momma time we designated bath and bedtime daddy time. When he gets home from work, he plays with her while I make dinner and then does bath and bed. Let me tell ya! She sure doesn’t like it when I have to do bedtime when he is on call! I honestly don’t care about that because that’s their time and I love hearing him sing to her ❤️melts my heart.

    [–] My (22F) girlfriend (23F) won't come over because of my mom. jfager16 1 points ago * (lasted edited 8 days ago) in relationships

    First of all you’re an adult. At some point you will need to detach from your mother. Her behavior is controlling and at the LEAST inappropriate... at the worst emotionally abusive. My question to you is, why would you want to expose someone you care about to someone who is toxic, angry and controlling? That’s no very thoughtful on your end.

    You have been conditioned to thing that your mothers behavior is ok. ITS NOT. Your GF is 100% right not wanting to be around such unhealthy behavior. With just how determined she is to be away from her, I wonder if she is even more toxic than you have implied here. That being said, saying “I’m used to it” is not a valid excuse to exposing a mean person to your partner.

    Just because she is your mom doesn’t mean your girlfriend has to like her. They are two individuals and they may never like one another. You can’t make it happen. Perhaps your girlfriend doesn’t like to watch you be mistreated? Maybe your mom is passive aggressive or rude when you’re not around? Who knows, but the bottom line is...you cannot make her like your mom.

    Edit: just because she is polite doesn’t change that she has some major character flaws. We get to choose who we surround ourselves with, and it sounds like B is choosing to cut out someone she deems unhealthy. It’s unfair for you to ask B to be in a place around someone she doesn’t like and ask her to be uncomfortable.