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    [–] He makes up every excuse.... jortego128 3 points ago in DeadBedrooms

    *Phone*Game*TV*PC* -- I swear these fucking things have destroyed more relationships than cheating...

    [–] Deciding to take my sexuality into my own hands jortego128 3 points ago in DeadBedrooms

    Is she serious or half-joking when she says that??

    [–] Is the style of approach so difficult to change? jortego128 0 points ago in DeadBedrooms

    A lot of girls would like this, I think, but if I said "would you like to make love with me?" to my SO, Im pretty sure she'd ruin it for me by saying "No", even if its just half joking... she is just afraid to really let loose and go with the flow for some reason...

    [–] He still masturbates jortego128 3 points ago in DeadBedrooms

    Hope this is a joke...

    [–] He still masturbates jortego128 1 points ago in DeadBedrooms

    Lol what am I doing wrong?? 🤣

    [–] My husband has changed. I don’t think he is attracted to me anymore. jortego128 1 points ago in DeadBedrooms

    Mid 30s is definitely not "too old" my wife is 38 and now that she has returned to within 10 or so lbs of her wedding day weight I find her as sexy as ever. She was 23 when we married.

    [–] LLF Tells the Truth jortego128 1 points ago in DeadBedrooms

    This may well wake his ass up and he'll come to the post. You can apologize, but also explain WHY you messed up and did it. Show him this post even.

    [–] LLF Tells the Truth jortego128 1 points ago in DeadBedrooms

    Rules 1& 3

    [–] LLF Tells the Truth jortego128 1 points ago in DeadBedrooms

    Rules 1& 3

    [–] LLF Tells the Truth jortego128 1 points ago in DeadBedrooms

    Rules 1& 3

    [–] No sex/Bad sex jortego128 1 points ago in DeadBedrooms

    Although I said what I said about him describing my wife, I do agree with your sentiment here. I am not starving, things are still moving, but Im stuck with chicken nuggets thinking a big juicy burger would be nice sometimes. Its all relative, I guess...

    [–] No sex/Bad sex jortego128 1 points ago in DeadBedrooms

    The second problem, and probably bigger one it this - she is just awful at sex. I mean really terrible. Before you judge me I’ll elaborate a bit. I feel like I have gotten better at sex the more of it that I have had. I have gotten more in tune with my partner and her desires and have learned ways to make us both feel good (this is true with my wife and with other partners). For whatever reason my wife just doesn’t learn, or worse and probably more likely the case, she just doesn’t give a shit.

    Her idea of sex is that I’ll eat her pussy while she lays on her back. She will have an orgasm. Then I’ll fuck her missionary. Some kissing might be involved at points along the way, and once in a blue moon I might get blown. As far as any other position, it’s almost out of the question. If I bring it up she talks about how she lacks the ability or the confidence to fuck any other way. She seems to want to just lay there.

    Holy hell man. You just described my wife. Like, verbatim, only she strokes me while I go down in a semi-69 position to do it. She says she feels uncomfortable being on top and doggy hurts. I can understand if something hurts but she doesnt even want to get on top to just kiss me or dry hump. smh.... I can definitely sympathize with you my friend...

    [–] I'm checking out of this relationship (f23) jortego128 1 points ago in DeadBedrooms

    Im sorry to say, and this is going only off what you have said here, I dont think so either... :0(

    [–] He still masturbates jortego128 3 points ago in DeadBedrooms

    haha you one upped me , if I sent a sext to my wife I'd probably get back a "why the fuck did you send that?" lol

    [–] Something Positive Sunday jortego128 1 points ago in DeadBedrooms

    lol man, take what you can get sometimes, ;0)

    [–] Interesting conversation with my sister about attraction and relationships... jortego128 1 points ago in DeadBedrooms

    Cant and wont are two very different things...

    But I digress, the point is, she needs to understand everything about her husband she possibly can. Anything less is akin to simply sticking her head in the sand or fingers in her ears "hoping" the problem will go away or resolve itself. Ignorance of a problem or potential problem should never even be a consideration. Sometimes the truth hurts, but in her case, she needs to know it.

    [–] I'm checking out of this relationship (f23) jortego128 2 points ago in DeadBedrooms

    I wouldnt say 24/7, as obviously sometimes he may actually be sick or whatever, but if he feels good enough to "whack it" instead of being with you, ESPECIALLY knowing it hurts you, either he doesnt love you or he has a very twisted sense of what love is/means...

    [–] I've come to point where I don't even think of my wife in a romantic or sexual way. jortego128 1 points ago in DeadBedrooms

    Exactly, but at least you'll have more ammo to leave, if partner wont attempt to make a change.

    [–] AAARRRRGHGHHHGHHH!!!! jortego128 1 points ago in DeadBedrooms

    I apologize. That was wrong of me.

    [–] Did your partner lie to you jortego128 1 points ago in DeadBedrooms

    True that. To have and to hold, for better and for worse...

    [–] AAARRRRGHGHHHGHHH!!!! jortego128 0 points ago in DeadBedrooms

    Some of these dodos need it spelled out for them....