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    [–] she was found dead btw malevitch_square 12 points ago in insanepeoplefacebook

    My father kidnapped me when I was 11 and staged bruises on my brother to frame my mom for abuse.

    [–] AITA for getting mad with how mom spent my money malevitch_square 3 points ago in AmItheAsshole

    We all need to self-check, I get it. Plus it's mom, a blind spot for many.

    [–] AITA for not wanting to sit by people who smell like smoke? malevitch_square 9 points ago in AmItheAsshole

    NTA

    You're not being rude about it. Same as if you didn't want to sit next to someone with bad BO.

    [–] AITA for getting mad with how mom spent my money malevitch_square 9 points ago in AmItheAsshole

    NTA

    You asked her to pick up groceries for you since she was going shopping, and gave her money with which to pay for the things you asked for. Plus an additional sum as a gift. She spent the money and did not get what you asked for. That's an asshole move.

    [–] Seeing 2 people at once-should I feel guilty? malevitch_square 2 points ago in relationship_advice

    Of course you are not a horrible person. You're dating. You can date as many people as you want until you commit to someone. You aren't official with either of these dudes, so keep doing what you want.

    [–] My moment of economic instability threatens our relationship & pregnancy now. malevitch_square 3 points ago in relationship_advice

    Why did you delete your orignal post and make a new one? Stop running away from the truth - your new baby is not the problem, you are. As I stated in my original reply: You have a baby on the way, get your shit together. Stop making shitty choices and get yourselves into couples counseling.

    [–] Pregnancy kills our relationship malevitch_square 3 points ago in relationship_advice

    Why do you say the pregnancy killed the relationship? It sounds like your bad decisions killed it?

    You both need couples counseling. You have a child on the way and need to get your shit together.

    [–] i [NB17] don’t think i’m in love with my boyfriend [M17] but he depends on me malevitch_square 3 points ago in relationship_advice

    That is true, but it is still not your responsibility. You can convince yourself all you want that you MUST stay with him for his sake, but it's not fair to you and it isn't fair to him. You're lying to him and you're lying to yourself - why? because of guilt. My advice is to break up and if you are genuinely concerned for his safety, telling an adult and getting him help is all you can do. While it's not ideal to be in a psych ward, if someone is truly a danger to themselves that is the best place for them. I'm ending this conversation here. It's up to you to take control of your situation.

    [–] i [NB17] don’t think i’m in love with my boyfriend [M17] but he depends on me malevitch_square 3 points ago in relationship_advice

    You are 17. That is way too heavy for a 17 year old to deal with on their own. He was fine before you, he will be fine after you.

    [–] i [NB17] don’t think i’m in love with my boyfriend [M17] but he depends on me malevitch_square 3 points ago in relationship_advice

    You can't stay with someone out of fear of what will happen to them if you leave them. You have to look out for yourself. His mental health is not your responsibility - it's his and his parents, regardless of whether or not they take it seriously. Move on and explore yourself, if that means dating women, do it.

    [–] My(28M) GF(24F) sent me a picture of a bloody hand after I broke up with her last week. malevitch_square 6 points ago in relationship_advice

    Ignore her. If she pulls any of this manipulative shit again, call the cops on her. An involunatry stay in the mental ward will teach her a valuable lesson.

    Let her bf know she's a cheater and block her on everthing.

    [–] AITA For Not Wanting My GF to Have a say in the Hiring of my new Assistant? malevitch_square 39 points ago in AmItheAsshole

    NTA

    You didn't "want" a young female assistant. Your gf needs to stop trying to control you and work on her trust issues. If she can't handle you working with women, it's just going to escalate to her not being able to handle a lot more.

    [–] AITA for getting mad at my girlfriend for not getting me a Valentine's card? malevitch_square 151 points ago in AmItheAsshole

    YTA

    You set expectations and then got mad when your gf met them. You said no gifts, then got her gifts and got upset that you got nothing. Did you communicate that you wanted her to dress for V-day? Because you stayed in and it is completely reasonable to think a staycation means you get to be comfy too. My husband and I stayed in and ordered takeout and you better believe I was in the baggiest shit I own.

    [–] AITA for Cheating on Husband malevitch_square 1 points ago in AmItheAsshole

    I don't get why. What do they get out of posting situations where they obviously suck?

    [–] AITA for spending valentine's day at the gym instead of with my girlfriend? malevitch_square 148 points ago in AmItheAsshole

    Your whataboutisms mean nothing. We're judging you on the scenario you presented in your OP. YTA

    [–] AITA for Cheating on Husband malevitch_square 4 points ago in AmItheAsshole

    ESH

    But I highly doubt this post is even real. Two wrongs don't make a right and all... Yeah your husband is an asshole, but guess what? So are you.