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    [–] Getting that tattoo... mizzcharmz 2 points ago in ChoosingBeggars

    A literal version of you get what you pay for!

    [–] AITA for donating my daughters college fund instead of giving it to my step daughter to help buy a house mizzcharmz 1 points ago in AmItheAsshole

    NTA. I would be considering a divorce if my husband decided to side with a step daughter against my own daughters wishes... There are so many factors here. The same age (meaning step daughter could have saved as well) the lack of relationship (nobody owes her anything) its just... So many reasons OP can do this with a clear conscience

    [–] “Motivational speaker” convinces woman to do a trust fall so he can purposely let her hit the ground to teach that no one can be trusted mizzcharmz 1 points ago in iamatotalpieceofshit

    True story... Not proud but when i was 16 I got into a crash after drinking... Luckily I didnt hurt anyone just damaged the ford ranger I was driving pretty bad cuz i went around a turn to fast and tipped it over. I walked away without a scratch... Could not be more grateful for the fact that i hit nobody... Any I did get apprehended and catch my first and only DUI.... Never again will i get behind a wheel drunk and never have. I'm now 31

    [–] So I did the math. It’s 44 hours a week for $3.41 an hour. It doesn’t show up here but you also need to cook and have your own car. mizzcharmz 1 points ago in ChoosingBeggars

    Ugh entitled ppl... Im sorry but I have a 3 year old and I would NEVER expect anyone, even my own mother to watch him for free unless she said it was fine. And even then... I wouldnt do that as a daily thing. Daily care for kids should always be paid whether its family or not. Anytime i have a friend watch my kid while i run out and do stuff I always opt to pay them 20 to 40 bucks... Depending on how long im gonna be out that day. Its just right... Sad that so many people take advantage... No wait. Sad that so many people feel the RIGHT to take advantage. Yuck

    [–] Fifty cents an hour for quality in-home childcare mizzcharmz 4 points ago in ChoosingBeggars

    No clue why u are being downvoted for being a good person... The NERVE lol.

    [–] Fifty cents an hour for quality in-home childcare mizzcharmz 2 points ago in ChoosingBeggars

    I do not get ppl like this... Who would 1. Take a job paying 20 bucks a week and 2. Allow someone to watch ur kid for friggin PENNYS. Like that's insane. My kid is worth more then that

    [–] So I did the math. It’s 44 hours a week for $3.41 an hour. It doesn’t show up here but you also need to cook and have your own car. mizzcharmz 14 points ago in ChoosingBeggars

    Oh man, one time i had errands to run, important ones... So i asked my husband to take off work and come watch the kids (hers too) so that i could get these things done. Payday that week... She deducted a full day from payment (45 bucks cuz 75 a kid is 15 a day) and explained that "well he's family so she doesn't have to pay for him to watch the kids". Knowing that he took off a day from work, LOSING PAY! To make sure she didnt have to do that....

    Entitled ass people

    [–] So I did the math. It’s 44 hours a week for $3.41 an hour. It doesn’t show up here but you also need to cook and have your own car. mizzcharmz 19 points ago * (lasted edited 4 days ago) in ChoosingBeggars

    I had this exact job for my sister in law but they were toddlers and it was 6am to 6pm. 75 bucks a kid... 3 kids 2, 3 and 5. The youngest was also autistic. But the 5 year old eventually went to school so it went to 2 kids... When it was 3... I could somewhat justify the 225 a week. Yes I drove 30 minutes both ways, paid for my own gas... Yes I had to provide juice most days and often buy food. Yes I made all her kids profiles on MY sons ABC mouse account and spent time working with them a few times a week. But again. It was 225 and I got to keep my kiddo (1 1/2 at the time) with me... When it went down to 2 kids and i was now having other responsibilities added on (cleaning and even cooking... Doing THEIR laundry and they were nit picking everything I did... I decided to up it to 100 a kid) she said she would discuss with partner. Next time we spoke she told me she would see me Monday. So I assumed she accepted the price and resumed my job as usual. Come Friday she hands me 150. I said um... Ur 50 shy, she says "oh... Well i never agreed." I simply looked at her and said ok... Find another sitter.

    People will take advantage... Funny thing is, this caused a huge family falling out. I avoid anything she attends and would never watch her kids again even tho I adored them.

    [–] This absolute gem happened to my co-worker the other night mizzcharmz 1 points ago in ChoosingBeggars

    Totally random... But this reminded me of a weirs situation i stumbled across. I live in Tampa, FL... Well one night i was picking up my son from his sitters house in the city-ish part of town, i stopped at a 711 for gas and right by the garbage can were 3 completely naked girl dolls. It was so bizarre... Like, what were they doing there? What happened? I have a hard time believing they were a child's sadly... Especially since it was so close to the city... Idk. Just had to share

    [–] Soldier complaining about no longer receiving a 60% discount on his donuts, "even when in uniform". As a soldier myself, this type of soldier embarrasses and infuriates me. mizzcharmz 2 points ago in ChoosingBeggars

    It seems like it's a mom and pop shop which is the worst thing... Cuz they were being nice and he took major advantage. It's sad because I'm sure they loved doing it... But you have to support these little shops instead of take advantage. Otherwise eventually the world will be nothing but dunkin donuts.

    [–] I was looking into a CB story posted by a regular poster and found these great 1 star review responses on their page mizzcharmz 1 points ago in ChoosingBeggars

    When i was a server I sometimes recieved rotton reviews from this one girl who disliked me personally. I was dating the guy she liked. She literally would trash me in review form but yet never step foot in the restaurant so yeah. I will say that luckily she wasn't smart enough to make a fake account and used her own so i was able to identify her immediately.

    [–] Girl offered to get guy some food, guy wanted Red Lobster. mizzcharmz 2 points ago in ChoosingBeggars

    Am i the only one drooling over what she is making for dinner now.... Id take that in a heartbeat

    [–] AITA for telling my "nephew" his ps4 was going to be destroyed to teach him a lesson? mizzcharmz 1 points ago in AmItheAsshole

    Nta I agree about taking away a console for bad grades... They have tons of parental settings to help aid in this kind of stuff. I have a 13 year old. For a long time he was gettinf bad grades. First we didn't give him xbox live... He found ways around that (using friends log ins, etc) finally we took off all other accounts and restricted the Xbox to only 2 hours on school days and 4 hours on weekends. The rules we placed were if he could get no Fs and no D's then he could lose qll restrictions. I honestly wasn't crazy about this idea... Thinking it was sure to cause grades to drop again. But he pulled it off. 5 Cs, 1 A and 1 B. This whole semester he has had no restrictions. When his grades slip, we remind him about getting restrictions back... He's about to get his report card again.... And online, it reflects 3 Cs, 2 Bs and 2 As.... So he actually brought his grades up. This is a 13 year old... Parents don't have to result to breaking things... Just make sure whatever promise u make (good or bad, take something away or give with no restrictions) you follow THROUGH. Otherwise the kid won't have any reason to follow thru because you obviously don't either.

    [–] I’m thinking about just ordering him a side of white rice. mizzcharmz 1 points ago in ChoosingBeggars

    I always use this analogy for choosey beggars... What a weird book we grew up with lol

    [–] AITA for saying “I love you more than anything” to my daughter in front of my wife mizzcharmz 1 points ago in AmItheAsshole

    NTA I say this to my son constantly. If anyone got offended by this... They are crazy. (Side note... Its true... I love my child more then anything. You can dall out of love with a spouse but u always love ur kids...)

    [–] This whole situation mizzcharmz 4 points ago in trashy

    Best episode/most cringy... Same thing

    [–] Do people ever think their own babies are ugly? mizzcharmz 2 points ago in NoStupidQuestions

    I had a friend who had a VERY ugly baby... For a long time She admitted she wasn't the prettiest baby but she never said ugly... However... The little girl grew into her looks and looks much cuter. Now the mom looks at her baby pics and laughs that she was so blinded by love. Says she was UGLY AS HELL lol. So I think in a way your blinded by love. My son... He was always cute, however... When he was born, he had the little balding old man hair. I used to joke that he was like an angry old man. But still cute. Looking back at his pics, i stand by it being a form of cuteness... But he was goofy looking lol

    [–] Dr. N. Tropy mizzcharmz 2 points ago in crashbandicoot

    Now that I beat the ghost in one level... I played another level (roo's tubes) and beat the top time.... Once again, no ghost N. Tropy. I tried again... And beat my score by 3 seconds. Sure enough, he unlocked. So looks like you are right... I dont know why that is but at least I know I'm not going crazy.