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    [–] Is changing yourself in a relationship bad, if so why? What are good examples of change? offbrandbarbie 1 points ago in AskMen

    No I agree with you, what I meant by what I said is you shouldn’t pretend to like certain things to seem cool or feel accepted, and you shouldn’t pretended to dislike other things to avoid them thinking you’re weird, immature, annoying etc. taking interest in your SO hobbies is good, but pretending to be someone you’re not, isn’t.

    [–] Is changing yourself in a relationship bad, if so why? What are good examples of change? offbrandbarbie 14 points ago in AskMen

    There are good ways to change in a relationship. Like becoming nicer, more understanding, more trusting etc. but if you find yourself changing parts of who you are to please the person, that’s when it’s bad. Like pretending to enjoy or not enjoy certain hobbies, music. Or cutting off friends, family ect.

    [–] First time posting...found sexual picture of my sister (taken without her consent) on my husband’ phone. offbrandbarbie 7 points ago in relationship_advice

    You cut him out of your life. You tell your sister what that horrible man has done to her. Make sure she is the one that tells her husband, and make sure to tell him that she needs him to help get through this, and he can’t help her if he’s behind bars. Your husband won’t kill himself. He’s manipulating you. Send those pictures to yourself from his phone, then delete the messages containing the images off his phone. Show them to the police. Tell them everything. File for divorce and be there for your sister. Even though she was the one victimized by sexual assault. You’re a victim here too, you were married to a rapist for 18 years. That’s hard to handle. I suggest you and her both get therapy after this.

    [–] Can I [21M] date a [27F]? offbrandbarbie 3 points ago in askwomenadvice

    Imo four years is a good amount of time to wait before settling down. And that age gap isn’t the worst thing ever. Most people wouldn’t really bat an eye at it. Do ya thing

    [–] *pumped up kicks intro* offbrandbarbie 1 points ago in dankmemes

    You was right I deleted. I didn’t see the school shooter rule bc I’m a lame who skims

    [–] They’ll even eat the plastic if they have to offbrandbarbie 3 points ago in dankmemes

    Listen man I have a Great Dane I always underestimate her reach

    [–] *pumped up kicks intro* offbrandbarbie 2 points ago in dankmemes

    The Hate speech rule? How is this hate speech?

    Edit: u right my bad fam

    [–] Inject the kid with essential oils offbrandbarbie 6 points ago in dankmemes

    “Id rather risk my kid dying of polio than them get autism” -antivaxx moms

    [–] How often do you do your makeup in the bathroom only for it to look completely different outside or at work? How do you adjust for different light? offbrandbarbie 29 points ago in AskWomen

    The best light to do your makeup in, in my opinion is natural daylight. It gives you the realest idea of how you look and if your makeup looks good in natural light it’ll look good in all light.