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    [–] My first cardigan (not me in the pics) pupperMcWoofen 4 points ago in knitting

    I’m glad it’s not you. I was concerned.

    [–] Besides looks what are the main reasons you prefer younger women? pupperMcWoofen 7 points ago in AgeGap

    I am similar to you personality wise. From what I’ve been told from older guys who actually get to know me is that they aren’t put off by the alpha personality like a lot of people my age are (early 20’s). They like a strong woman who can stand her own but in a relationship still want to be the more submissive one. That is part of the nurturing thing I’ve noticed older men have a tendency for. Keep being yourself is all I can say. Anyone who can’t “handle” your alpha-ness isn’t worth your time.

    [–] Freestyle beard blues pupperMcWoofen 3 points ago in Swimming

    Beard swim caps. That sounds like an investment opportunity

    [–] People with depression, what is the most stupid thing someone ever said to you because of your mental illness? pupperMcWoofen 1 points ago in AskReddit

    My mother called it teenage depression to my doctors as a way of downplaying it like I was being dramatic. Only when I finally had a suicide attempt did she take it serious. But Karma can be a bitch; her and my brother were both diagnosed with depression after I was.

    [–] EM calls me a slut for not wearing a bra pupperMcWoofen 20 points ago in entitledparents

    It sounds like this lady doesn’t know anything about 90s fashion. When bras didn’t exist

    [–] AITA for waiting till the 5th date to tell a guy about my issues with sex? pupperMcWoofen 19 points ago in AmItheAsshole

    First of all it’s not the Black Plague. There’s plenty of meds, condoms and not having sex on outbreaks that makes the risk of passing it on virtually 0. But people don’t like listening to facts or listening to anything the person says after saying they have HSV. Your mentality is exactly why people hide the fact they have it and therefor spread it. Also fun fact, testing for herpes isn’t on the standard STI panel. Some people even have it and never have outbreaks. So before determining there’s only 2 solutions to this situation and assuming the person with HSV would be a dick, do some research.

    [–] AITA for waiting till the 5th date to tell a guy about my issues with sex? pupperMcWoofen 31 points ago in AmItheAsshole

    The amount of dates is completely up to OP. If OP is not planning on having sex that soon then it’s not relevant. At the end of the day people who don’t know anything about HSV 2 react to this news like someone said they have the plague or something. It’s really not taught well in sex ed anywhere and makes it extremely hard for people who have HSV to feel comfortable telling a partner. And people like OPs date don’t bother listening to facts and just chalk it up to waste of time. Like what reason would OP have to even tell anyone before a significant period of time when reactions like these are most common.

    [–] Playing hide and seek with his sister. pupperMcWoofen 1 points ago in gifs

    Someone get this kid to a climbing gym

    [–] AITA for requesting prayer breaks at work because my religious coworkers do even though I’m not religious? pupperMcWoofen -2 points ago in AmItheAsshole

    I was ok with everything until I hit “your co workers go above and beyond during Christmas to cover your hours”. I think right there your pay and time worked even out. YTA

    [–] AITA for refusing to wear a bra while my boyfriend’s friend is staying at our apartment? pupperMcWoofen -3 points ago in AmItheAsshole

    I’m so sorry your boyfriend isn’t supportive of you in your own house. New house rule should be that friend can’t come over until he apologizes to you in front of your boyfriend while wearing nothing more than a bra.

    [–] AITA for not telling my husband that his daughter started her period? pupperMcWoofen -1 points ago in AmItheAsshole

    Um it’s helpful to know when you walk in on a bloody massacre bathroom during her period. Or if dads doing laundry and you’ve got blood soaked sheets. I don’t think that it’s the purpose of knowing you can have babies now. It’s just being informed enough to be a good parent and sometimes from thinking you’re daughter was part of a slasher movie making.

    [–] Nephew attacked my infant and we don't know what to do pupperMcWoofen 25 points ago in relationship_advice

    I mean I agree. He is being parented badly. I’m not afraid to say that. I’m just trying to say there may be more to it.

    [–] AITA for not letting this student become a cheerleader again, despite her having a good reason for missing cheer camp? pupperMcWoofen 13 points ago in AmItheAsshole

    Honestly I hope something life shattering happens to you and no one has empathy for you. This is exactly why kids come out at machines and work themselves to death through high school, college and eventually their work life. The attitude of “there are no such things as sick days”. You don’t care about her as a human, no sense of humanity. No one asked you to be a hallmark movie. You’ve got some serious soul searching to do.

    [–] AITA for sometimes ordering items not on the menu? pupperMcWoofen 1 points ago in AmItheAsshole

    How is this different than being like “I want that minus this but can you add that instead”. Like as a vegetarian I ask for no meat add mushrooms a lot. Technically it still messes up their system.

    [–] Nephew attacked my infant and we don't know what to do pupperMcWoofen 257 points ago in relationship_advice

    Children can 100% need therapy. People who have antisocial personality disorder have to have signs of it wayyyyy before they can be diagnosed. That is very much what this sounds like. The only way to make them somewhat better functioning adults is intervention by professionals as children. You can not diagnose someone with antisocial until they are 18 but have to show symptoms before they are 15. Until then it is called conduct disorder. Without intervention early on, it’s very hard to manage these people as adults. They show no guilt, no sense of doing anything wrong and are very manipulative. They essentially have to be taught what guilt is and why it’s wrong. Though they may not feel the emotions associated.

    [–] “Wind up” smart car pupperMcWoofen 0 points ago in CrappyDesign

    Well yes, you don’t actually wind up the car. It’s the fact this person decided to decorate the car as such.