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    [–] Does anyone else feel like S5 was over produced? smlpaj456 7 points ago in QueerEye

    There definitely is, but if the money they make from those ads will go into doing more for the heroes and keeping the show going, then I don't mind a little ad placement

    [–] Queer eye clothing identification alternative smlpaj456 3 points ago in QueerEye

    Yess!! I need to know where I can find the dress Dr. Lilly Yi wore when her husband and daughter first saw her and the updated apartment

    [–] Employers want job candidates to write a full cover letter, yet few even send rejection emails. smlpaj456 1 points ago in Showerthoughts

    Sometimes I feel like they put off sending out a rejection letter so that if whoever the filled the position with turns out to be a bust, then they have a few fish still on the line they can "congratulate" for getting the job

    [–] Sex Shop and Sex Workers of Reddit: What are some of the best examples or clients not knowing how anatomy/sex works? smlpaj456 9 points ago in AskReddit

    Hahah yes. And then it just gets to the point where you have to tell them it's just not going to happen and give it a rest. That's always a fun and sexy moment

    [–] Sex Shop and Sex Workers of Reddit: What are some of the best examples or clients not knowing how anatomy/sex works? smlpaj456 39 points ago in AskReddit

    I mean, I'm 25 and have three different types of sex toys but have never had an orgasm. It's still pleasurable, I just haven't gotten there yet. People are always so shocked but it is what it is I guess.

    [–] Maeve + Mavis = Maevis? smlpaj456 -1 points ago in namenerds

    I don't think people would be confused but I like the look of maevis a little more

    [–] Maeve + Mavis = Maevis? smlpaj456 1 points ago in namenerds

    I'm no where close to having children so this was just a random name thought I had and wanted to hear the opinions of other name nerd folk (:

    [–] 1880 Names: A Retrospective (The US Census) smlpaj456 21 points ago in namenerds

    Concepcion?? Really?? Nothing like being reminded of the time your parents had sex for the rest of your life

    [–] So satisfying! smlpaj456 1 points ago in 3Dprinting

    Additionally, never get ipa or hand sanitizer on your skin after coming into contact with wet resin, it causes it to seep further into your skin, improving the likelihood of causing a reaction!

    [–] Can we all take a moment to appreciate this guy that for me at least is one of the main reasons why i love this show so much smlpaj456 2 points ago in westworld

    I frequently binge listen to the series soundtrack. Whether I'm in the office, on my commute, or at the gym. It's amazing how the same set of scores can focus me, mesmerize me, and motivate me. Truly some of the best music I've ever had the pleasure of hearing

    [–] How to reload charlie card on train smlpaj456 2 points ago in mbta

    Update: after adding the money. You have to press the white button again yo accept/confirm and THEN tap the card. But thank you all for the help! Knowing most of the steps definitely got me there quicker (:

    [–] A question that came into one of my local radio stations smlpaj456 2 points ago in insaneparents

    I had a great uncle Dick that had gone by Dick since he was in hos 20s. But the last few years of his life, pushing 90, he decided he now wanted to be called Richard. So we called him uncle Richard.

    Weird how completely easy and non-confusing it was to accept a different name for someone when they ask!

    [–] Worst names in your family? smlpaj456 8 points ago in NameNerdCirclejerk

    Honestly, I feel like Jenison would be more fitting for a girl than Jenson. Both could be shortened to Jen but Jenison could also be shortened to Jeni (Jenny)

    [–] Before you realized you were a lesbian, what type of men did you fall for? smlpaj456 5 points ago in latebloomerlesbians

    I wouldn't even get to the date part! I think just talking to them online, I was able to disassociate the fact that they're any particular gender but then when they wanted to meet in person, I had zero desire to actually meet them and have to worry about navigating their likely interest in intimacy

    [–] Before you realized you were a lesbian, what type of men did you fall for? smlpaj456 18 points ago in latebloomerlesbians

    I definitely relate to that first part. Whenever I would match with men on dating apps, we would talk awhile, it'd be fine, but the second they wanted to actually meet me and peruse something, I hightailed it out of there and as far away from them as possible.

    I could never understand why I thought I was into these guys but never actually wanted anything to do with them

    [–] You will smlpaj456 12 points ago in tumblr

    I'd definitely be passing down the entirety of Princess Mononoke. Those giant forest beings and all the kodama and pur ancestors' obsession with oil and deforestation. Just enough lore and just enough truth

    [–] Just a vent on “Gender neutral” names smlpaj456 8 points ago in namenerds

    I actually kind of love this! I can totally see this fitting as a boy name. I think I prefer it for boys now that I think of it...

    [–] AITA for reminding my girlfriend it was HER decision to have an abortion? smlpaj456 1 points ago in AmItheAsshole


    While I understand where you, your parents, and her parents were coming from in wanting her to get an abortion, it ultimately is the decision of the person who's pregnant. However, it sounds like she only came to the decision to abort because she was bullied into it. What 19 year old is going to go through with having a baby they want knowing that the baby's father and both sets of grandparents will likely alienate her for giving birth to it? It's really messed up that she was bullied into having an abortion she didn't want and despite having stayed with you for 6 years and even being happy during those 6 years, it sounds like she's been living with a lot of guilt and regret.

    While I've never had an abortion myself, based on the experience of close friends and family, whether you are confident and content with your decision to abort, the experience never leaves you. It's traumatic, difficult, and permanent. You bullied her then, don't bully her now. Just be there for her and help her live with the loss of what could have been and plan for what will be in your future together.