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    [–] Advice needed: How do I tell my FIL to tone it down about my father's death? stefanielaine 2 points ago in GriefSupport

    I’m so sorry about your dad.

    Maybe you (or your husband) could explain Ring Theory to your father in law? If you’re not familiar, the basic concept is that you can map people who are affected by an event onto a series of concentric circles with the people most affected in the innermost circle, and everyone on the circle should comfort in, dump out. That means, because you’re closer to the death of your father than your father in law, he shouldn’t be dumping his grief onto you. He should be comforting you, and dumping his grief onto someone further away from the event.

    https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/promoting-hope-preventing-suicide/201705/ring-theory-helps-us-bring-comfort-in%3Famp

    [–] The Saddest Triple Double Crunchwrap stefanielaine 1 points ago in tacobell

    Such an important question! I have always wondered this.

    [–] First day tomorrow - question about timing for shift end stefanielaine 1 points ago in InstacartShoppers

    Awesome, thank you! And does the beginning of my shift time include travel to my assigned zone? I really wish there was more logistical detail in the Shopper app!

    [–] First day tomorrow - question about timing for shift end stefanielaine 1 points ago in InstacartShoppers

    Thank you! Do you think I need to be in the neighborhood where my shift is when my shift starts (about 15 min from me) or will travel time from my house to the store be included in my order time?

    [–] Keto friendly doctors in Phoenix? stefanielaine 2 points ago in xxketo

    “Wow doc, so you’re saying I just need to eat less and move more? Hang on let me write that down!” 🙄🙄🙄

    [–] The Saddest Triple Double Crunchwrap stefanielaine 2 points ago in tacobell

    I haven’t experienced a general downward trend in quality (I regularly visit several in Phoenix) and everything else in this order was great - but I think this item has a high degree of difficulty and it’s one of few items that sucks if you don’t get the ingredient ratios just right.

    [–] The Saddest Triple Double Crunchwrap stefanielaine 11 points ago in tacobell

    I was so excited that the TDC is back so I headed to Taco Bell yesterday and I got...this. I noticed when I bit into it that it was basically like two (stale) crunch layers stacked on top of each other with no filling in between. I took it apart and there was just a stripe of meat down the middle. Awful. I salvaged it by putting all of the meat, lettuce, etc on one of the crunch things and made a taco and it was fine.

    The Beefy Crunch burrito was the shit though!

    [–] What was the biggest scandal or dumbest screw up of a coworker that got him fired? stefanielaine 2 points ago in AskReddit

    I went to college with a dude named Bogdan and I just creeped on your profile to see if you’re him; you’re not, but hi, and cool name

    [–] Zeus had a very exhausting day of meowing and staring out the window, time to nap and blep stefanielaine 9 points ago in Blep

    He already had that name when we adopted him, but we kept the name because he’s loud, bossy, and causes a lot of chaos. I think the real Zeus would approve.

    [–] Saw this yesterday, a great reminder for all the brides out there that you are enough as you are right now stefanielaine 3 points ago in weddingplanning

    Thank you!! Literally it’s all from Amazon!

    Necklace and earring set: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B018WSABJG?ref=yo_pop_ma_swf

    Fascinator: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B01NACGA3L/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apip_IoAKFZdcOsR6b

    My overall message to you and your future spouse is: BE YOU. Have YOUR wedding. Understand that anyone who wants to twist your arm into doing something you don’t want to do is dealing with their own shit and doesn’t have your best interests as their primary motivation. It’s such a gift to yourself to realize that - I’m just so sorry it includes your mom. My dad (the abusive narcissist) and I are estranged and he didn’t come to my wedding, so sadly I can relate. Feel free to PM anytime if you want to talk about any of this. <3

    [–] Saw this yesterday, a great reminder for all the brides out there that you are enough as you are right now stefanielaine 43 points ago in weddingplanning

    Ohhhhh girl I am SO SORRY. What a cruel thing to say. For what it’s worth I was fat as FUCK at my wedding and everyone had an absolute blast, so.

    https://imgur.com/a/iF5xXTk

    [–] Gifs play sound on homepage? stefanielaine 1 points ago in getnarwhal

    Ah, so they're just videos being incorrectly labeled gifs. I saw on the beta thread that a few people are still experiencing noisy gifs in the beta, so it looks like I'll be moving on. Thank you!

    [–] v2.16 beta out for testing stefanielaine 1 points ago in getnarwhal

    Same - this is an incredibly infuriating bug that keeps me from being able to browse reddit in public or in bed while my husband is sleeping which is about 90% of my reddit browsing.

    [–] Gifs play sound on homepage? stefanielaine 1 points ago in getnarwhal

    I'm experiencing this too and it's been about a month since your post saying it's fixed with no fix delivered - what's the timeline for this, and could you explain what the problem is? Gifs are silent by definition so is the problem that videos are being incorrectly classified as gifs?