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    [–] Le Boudoir club in London - Our experience/review thedenimghost 1 points ago in Swingers

    Thanks. I can only imagine the sensory overload of sight and sound. Did you play with other that night or together.

    [–] How to bring it up thedenimghost 1 points ago in HotWifeLifestyle

    One tip from us. Don't discuss this whilst in bed. Do it outside of the bedroom. It takes the pressure of it, although it can be hard for a partner to hear the first time.

    But 100% be honest. It took me a number of years to actually mention it to my wife and a few more years of it being in the background and not directly addressing it before my wife's opinion on it shifted from no interest, to mild bedroom fantasy interest, to burning desire and finally fulfilment.

    [–] How to know if youre ready to share. thedenimghost 2 points ago in HotWifeLifestyle

    This is excellent advice. Follow this. The build up each time is going to drive you both wild.

    [–] Pregnancy thedenimghost 3 points ago in HotWifeLifestyle

    We didn't play when she was pregnant but that was because we weren't in the LS back then. However we have discussed it as a fantasy. Theres plenty of us out there that find pregnancy a huge turn on. I think if you take the same cautions as you always would you'd be fine.

    [–] Le Boudoir club in London - Our experience/review thedenimghost 1 points ago in Swingers

    Thanks for this. We haven't visited yet but have discussed it in the past. We're still not sure on the. Lub scene and have only played in private settings. There is and exhibitionist streak in both of us I think a club would help us realise.

    [–] Watch and listen to my wife (26F) get creampied by another man thedenimghost 1 points ago in swinging

    What a beautiful sight and sound. Nothing better than watching your wife enjoying herself and being taken.

    [–] UPDATE: is it ok to visit a swingets club with someone other than my wife thedenimghost 18 points ago in Swingers

    Thanks for updating us! We'll that took an unexpected twist. What was your wife's thoughts after she'd spoke to her? Do you think she'll let you go?

    [–] Is it ok to visit a swingers club with someone other than my wife? thedenimghost 2 points ago in Swingers

    Well we love to be watched, that's part of the attraction of going to clubs. We don't often play there but certainly like the voyeuristic element of people watching or us watching others.

    Keep us informed. We'd be interested in fi ding out what your wife says.

    [–] Fun/Surprsing Sex Innovation Introduced By My Wife thedenimghost 3 points ago in sexover30

    We discovered wand play on my cock not so long ago. In so many ways it blew my mind and body. I came so hard.

    [–] condoms/safe sex in the swinging lifestyle thedenimghost 1 points ago in Swingers

    We've always used condoms with our play partners. It's never been a discussion not to.

    We would love to not use them as we both like the idea of the freedom but it's NOT going to happen.

    [–] So many pic collectors thedenimghost 3 points ago in Swingers

    God I wish we could be that open with our pics. I can't even imagine what some of our friends would say if they found out.

    [–] So many pic collectors thedenimghost 1 points ago in Swingers

    Agree with that. We're from tumblr and kik and that was all about pic collectors.

    [–] Selfie together [F+M] thedenimghost 1 points ago in couplesgonewild

    You look like a great couple.

    [–] Why do we like it? thedenimghost 3 points ago in Swingers

    We've been asked this. I always answer that seeing her pleasure is the most wonderful thing in the world and that's if I'm giving the pleasure to her or watching her get pleasure from another guy (or girl).

    [–] She looks so sexy in the morning sun thedenimghost 1 points ago in wifesharing

    What a beautiful picture. I love looki g at a woman from that angle.

    [–] (F) 44 My HotWife of 20 yrs thedenimghost 1 points ago in wifesharing

    What a beautiful pic and woman.

    [–] Any couples interested? thedenimghost 1 points ago in Swingersgw

    We would definitely be Interested but I think we're in a different continent.

    [–] First time stuff thedenimghost 1 points ago in Swingers

    Yes I suppose that's right. We were very lucky to find such a great couple for the first time that were very understanding.

    [–] Passion etiquette question prior to first ever meet up thedenimghost 1 points ago in Swingers

    We went with a no kissing rule for our first meetings. But we soon realised that sometimes during the heat of the moment kissing and more intimate actions really are amazingly fulfilling.

    We always discuss before hand between ourselves and our partners.

    Id discuss it beforehand specifically with the wife as its her you'll be intimate with

    [–] Games to initiate thedenimghost 1 points ago in Swingers

    Weve done the card game route where there are sexy questions that allow you to get to know your play partners better.

    [–] How good looking naked do you need to be? thedenimghost 6 points ago in Swingers

    Dad bod here, with a wife with, in my opinion, a great figure that shows the nature of a tummy that's given birth.

    I think someone else has said it but the majority of us swingers are normal everyday people. There's a huge mix of fit bodies to relaxed. We all have our insecurities but the LS is perfect to make you realise that youre really desirable.