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    [–] Thats blackmail, not ransom themockingju 2 points ago in trashy

    Why do you assume her brother is underage? Grown men do send dick pics

    [–] TIFU by thinking I had dyslexia or something for 6 years themockingju 11 points ago in tifu

    Unless they're a pediatric opthalmologist, that's not really a better option. And most opthalmologists don't want generally healthy patients or patients with conditions that can be easily treated/monitored by optometrists. Their schedules are way too busy. They're also way more difficult to get scheduled with. So, no, that's not really a better option for your typical person.

    [–] Good question themockingju 9 points ago in BlackPeopleTwitter

    You're an idiot.

    [–] i wonder what’s going on in there... themockingju 10 points ago in trashy

    Wait, do you think girls don't wear Chucks? Especially white Chucks?

    [–] That’s not even his final form. themockingju 26 points ago in trashy

    The real trash is always in the comments.

    [–] Rant: I'm your doctor, please stop. themockingju 2 points ago in TwoXChromosomes

    🤷‍♀️ prefer you not include my username, but I'm not going to stop you

    [–] Rant: I'm your doctor, please stop. themockingju 1 points ago in TwoXChromosomes

    Omg. I feel for you. I try to be extra kind when calling customer support/service lines. I cannot imagine how much verbal abuse you have to deal with about shit you have nothing to do with.

    I had an issue with an airline that needed to be resolved. I didn't call for 2 weeks because everytime I started to dial I felt my blood pressure going up and the anger building. I knew I didn't want to be "that person" so I would hang up and try another day till I knew I wouldn't yell. Best of luck to you.

    [–] Rant: I'm your doctor, please stop. themockingju 2 points ago in TwoXChromosomes

    You can tell the difference between nervous and creepy. Finding me on social media after the exam isn't nerves. Commenting on my appearance on the office's social media isn't nerves.

    [–] Rant: I'm your doctor, please stop. themockingju 2 points ago in TwoXChromosomes

    I'm not voting on what you posted, mainly because of your edit. I would down vote you without that though.

    You appear to genuinely want to understand what the issue with what you said is. Basically, we live in a society. These people have been in society for 20+ years and are mentally aware and capable. By the time they get to me, I shouldn't be the one to have to change how they interact with people. They should know better. There are a million ways and reasons these people should know better. If you argue that's how people are due to biological instinct, you're a step away from justifying rape. Your viewpoint also borders on objectifying women as they can only be seen for romantic reasons by some. Like none of that is okay and seems like you've only read about the topic of society/males/females/romance/mating rather than experienced real interactions.

    Also, some people are just shitty people. These people aren't necessarily upstanding citizens. One had a reputation at a community health center for his disgusting behaviour towards female staff. His chart just hadn't been flagged. Your comment just comes off very apologetic towards these people who do shitty things because, in theory, you want to believe they're not shitty. But theory does not always translate to practice.

    [–] Rant: I'm your doctor, please stop. themockingju 2 points ago in TwoXChromosomes

    Hey bud, just saw this now. I did not ask for a solution. I wanted to bitch/rant/vent. Whatever term you want to use. I'm not asking someone to solve my problems, because I've solved my own fucking problems regarding these issues. Why do you think I didn't say anything at the time? Why do you think I just allowed this behaviour in my clinic to continue? Because I didn't layout my resolution for each individual I described or have encountered? I literally titled this with the word "Rant".

    Whine some more about the harder working generation. Why don't you hear about other doctors with these issues? Well, why the fuck would they talk to you about it.

    [–] Rant: I'm your doctor, please stop. themockingju 2 points ago in TwoXChromosomes

    I appreciate you. Overall, I very much love what I do and the majority of my patients seem to enjoy their care with me as I do with them. Some people just go way too far, and you need to find your outlets. I figured I'd try this once.

    [–] Rant: I'm your doctor, please stop. themockingju 2 points ago in TwoXChromosomes

    For that one, I did request that and flagged their chart. It was a community health center so we checked with the other departments about his behaviour. He was... consistent, just nobody had done anything. They all just knew him by reputation.

    What I meant by approchable attractive is that people have said things to me in places like grocery stores, school, uber, just nonsexual settings. I genuinely don't know why people approach me to do so, but they do.

    [–] Rant: I'm your doctor, please stop. themockingju 77 points ago in TwoXChromosomes

    Oh goodness, why did I never think of this?? Thank you for telling me to be assertive. With my meek female voice I never would've thought I could actually defend myself against brutes of this nature...

    Or I just wanted to bitch and used Reddit to do so, then this took off. How many people do you save with your deep, oh so helpful advice, my kind knight?

    [–] Rant: I'm your doctor, please stop. themockingju 48 points ago in TwoXChromosomes

    That really is an awful situation you are in. I hope you get into PA school and are able to move on from there soon. Best of luck to you!

    [–] Rant: I'm your doctor, please stop. themockingju 1873 points ago in TwoXChromosomes

    Yeah. I don't get it. I've had many people say blatantly fucked up sexual shit to me. I don't think I'm overly attractive, but maybe that's it? Maybe I'm approachable attractive so this fuckery just gets said to me, like I'm a safe target in their minds.

    Anyway, this particular human was terrible in everyway. I was glad to leave that exam room and flag his chart.

    [–] Rant: I'm your doctor, please stop. themockingju 22 points ago in TwoXChromosomes

    This is so gross to hear and on their part. I'm so sorry this happens to you.

    [–] Rant: I'm your doctor, please stop. themockingju 33 points ago in TwoXChromosomes

    Oh, thanks for the advice. It's almost as if I didn't mention actions I took to keep this post short and just to get out my rant. Thank goodness you're here to tell me how to handle my patients and life. I never thought of this. /s

    [–] Rant: I'm your doctor, please stop. themockingju 106 points ago in TwoXChromosomes

    Unfortunately, I can imagine you experiencing this more than myself. Partially due to different clinical settings, but also do to there being more gender stereotyping towards female nurses (i.e. sexy nurse, submissive role, etc.). Stay strong and remember why you're doing what you do. Find the niche that you love and keeps you interested in going back every day.

    [–] Rant: I'm your doctor, please stop. themockingju 2 points ago in TwoXChromosomes

    In Ontario, but I'm not a GP. Inbox me and maybe I can help point you in the direction of finding the right doc for you? There are a ton of patient-doc matching services out there but not always easy to find.

    [–] Rant: I'm your doctor, please stop. themockingju 5 points ago in TwoXChromosomes

    I'm not a GP, but sentiment is the same nonetheless. I went to school in the US and came back for many reasons. In the end, I really do like where I'm from and am happy to have my career here.

    [–] Rant: I'm your doctor, please stop. themockingju 6 points ago in TwoXChromosomes

    Another poster put it well, for Atlantic Canada you're going to have a difficult time finding young doctors wanting to move to the provinces unless they're from there.

    Halifax may be the largest urban area out there but it doesn't have the same draw as other urban areas to bring in new people. It's unfortunate.

    [–] Rant: I'm your doctor, please stop. themockingju 13 points ago in TwoXChromosomes

    I did this in high school when working in fast food. From experience, it does not matter.

    [–] Rant: I'm your doctor, please stop. themockingju 168 points ago in TwoXChromosomes

    Yeah, these are definitely more special cases. I look young and had a patient ask me if I had my parents' permission to be working. I asked if he'd prefer my father do his exam but gave him (the patient) fair warning he'd have to wait another 8 years for him (my dad) to get the education. The patient just laughed and let me so my thing. I heard him telling his wife afterwards that he really liked me.