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    [–] AITA for saying no to a friend coming to dinner with my friends and I victorial0688 0 points ago in AmItheAsshole

    I cant tell her I don't want her to come she is extremely sensitive so she will probally cry and tell her mom. The group doesnt really care. A did something really shitty to my best friend so she rather not her go. One isnt friends with her and the other doesnt care. It isnt a bullshit justification. Everytime I hang out in a group it gets really cinquey ESSPECAILLY with one of the girls invited. When that happens someone usally gets left out of discussions and things. It's sad but true.

    [–] Depression isn't an "aesthetic" victorial0688 1 points ago in rant

    I have anxiety too, not your type but social anxiety. Its not horrible but it constantly gets in the way of my well being. If I say something that I think may have come out wrong I shut down. I'm up till 2 am in a constant state of worry that the person I said it to hates me and that they will tell there friends how I'm a bitch and such and such. They play it off like I'm just nervous. People dont fucking understand what its like to have a panic attack because you freeze during a presentation in front of everyone and leave the classroom hyperventilating and crying, but wait it's not over. To have to call your mom to tell her to pick you up because if a peer says anything to you for the rest of the day you will have another one. But nope it's cute and quarky to be shy and nervous.

    [–] AITA for saying no to a friend coming to dinner with my friends and I victorial0688 0 points ago in AmItheAsshole

    I know her but we dont really hang out unless we are both at a thing my best friend hosts. My other friend is friends with her and the last friend is not due to A getting mad that she wasnt invited to something. And for the breaking off into smaller groups thing, its sadly a thing when It comes to hanging out in groups with my friends. Literly on my birthday I went to the city with my friends and two of them broke off from the group half the time to hang out the two of them.

    [–] AITA for saying no to a friend coming to dinner with my friends and I victorial0688 -4 points ago in AmItheAsshole

    So your implying that I invite everyone to everything that I do. I'm not really close with A. My best friend is. We will hang around eachother dont really make plans with eachother. I personally hate hanging out in big groups. I dont have a "squad" and sadly things get cliquey which usally results in me or someone else getting left out. I want to spend time with my close friends that I never get to spend time with. I didnt intentionally leave her out, which I have been before and I understand it hurts but I dont think I should need to invite everyone it everything.

    [–] What's the worst form of torture to have ever existed? victorial0688 1 points ago in AskReddit

    Solitary Confinement. Humans are social animals that NEED human interaction to stay sane essentially we cause people to kill their brain slowly and painfully. Worst thing about it is that we still do it to this day.

    [–] Free climbing gone wrong victorial0688 1 points ago in nononono

    This give me PTSD from when a girl on my cheer teams stunt on another team didnt come down well and she snapped her leg and you could see the bone under her skin. She is 10. I still feel bad for her and the girls in her stunt who were also like 11.

    [–] Who do you ship Harvina or Sabrina and Nick? And why? victorial0688 6 points ago in AdventuresOfSabrina

    Yeah that is one of the main reasons I dont ship them at much. Your literly asking her not to he herself. I understand not wanting to use magic on him. but around him? Yeah no.

    [–] It should read "So I am being fired". If you don't trust the science behind your chosen career, FIND ANOTHER FUCKING CAREER! victorial0688 1 points ago in facepalm

    I havent gotten my flu vaccine to two years... not because my parents are insane anti-vaxxers it's just that last year (17-18) season most of them didnt work (my dad got the flu even though he got the flu shot) and my parents never got around to it. And this year I literally got the flu 2 weeks into flu season so I'm set for the rest of the season.

    [–] What smells better than it tastes? victorial0688 1 points ago in AskReddit

    I drank vanilla extract when I was 5. I loved it and still do... then again I also always loved black dark roast coffee since I first sipped it out of my mother mug at 6.

    [–] AITA for complimenting a black girl on her hair? victorial0688 8 points ago in AmItheAsshole


    Your friend is trying to be woke and bring race into it. Keep completing people regardless of their race. Who knows? Maybe they were having a bad day and it made them feel better?

    [–] Dog ownership should be restricted and only allowed in certain circumstances victorial0688 9 points ago in Dogfree

    Yeah I dont like dogs but I dont think a ban will work. Try instead more strict requirements of owning one. Like a deposite to get them trained professionally or if you train them they have to pass a certain test to get it back.

    [–] What weird quirk or characteristic does your pet(s) have? victorial0688 2 points ago in AskReddit

    1. My cat doesnt let me take a bath alone. Everytime he hears it running he must bang at the door until you let him in.
    2. He gets mad when I say another cat is cute. Literly I was looking at a photo of a cat on reddit and said awwwww and he gave me a death glare
    3. He will walk into my room and stare at me for a good 10 minutes before leaving

    [–] smallest little panther. victorial0688 4 points ago in blackcats

    I just said awwww in front of my cat. He gave me a death glare... am I not aloud to think other cats put cute?

    [–] AITA for humiliating a 'fat acceptance' girl? victorial0688 71 points ago in AmItheAsshole

    ESH- she is shitty for directly targeting you but you were wayyyy out of line for directly putting on your story if people found her attractive. You did have the right to respond but you definitely shouldn't have done what you did. That's pretty much bullying. You better hope she doesnt bring this to the school or you will probally be kicked off swim.

    [–] Congrats on 10k subs! victorial0688 12 points ago in Dogfree

    Yay we made it! Originally I thought i was the only one in the world who didn't like dogs. Thank you for everyone making this community of like minded people existing and being a place for me to vent about dogs.

    [–] Girls calling themselves "Queen" are as ridiculous as guys calling themselves "Alpha" victorial0688 -1 points ago in unpopularopinion

    I don't understand how a girl can call themselves queen. One of my friends calls me Queen every day and I tell her to stop because it makes me uncomfortable and she is like nooooo your a queen and you slay. Yeah no. There is such things as confidence but who in their right mind would call themselves queen. It only makes you look self absorbed. If your friend does then it's ok because it's a complement.

    [–] What dire warning from your parents turned out to be bullshit? victorial0688 1 points ago in AskReddit

    Well my mom and brother convinced me a was allergic to chocolate untill I was 7... I still dont know why they did?